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	About rideemwet Grizz at local play parties, dungeons, or munches. Of course 'Rideemwet' is a word play on horseback riding, a hobby of mine. Workday professional, weekend farmer, active kinkster. I have many interests and definitely keep busy. Open marriage; I enjoy meeting and getting to know new people. Really getting to know someone takes time, but a meeting for dinner/drinks is often a good start to see if there's some sort of compatibility. For me kink is a realtime activity, not a cyber-interaction. Guess I spend too much time working on computers, so I'd rather not "play" there too, but I do welcome friends and conversations. My kink interest cover a broad range from sensual to sadistic, but the control aspect of D/s with a sub where there is a connection is what makes for more than a casual play partner.

"Home" is a farm in rural Georgia, a 3-4 hour drive from Atlanta, where I spend my free time raising and training horses, remodeling the house, adding to a growing collection of farm buildings, currently working on yet another hay barn.

Several years ago my career took a twist and I ended up working mostly out of Atlanta, a paycheck is necessary to cover the mortgage and keep the hay barns full. We arranged for my wife to retire and take care of the farm, and I work out of Atlanta a few days each week, rented a small apartment there. Fortunately I can do some telecommuting on other days.I keep my play in Atlanta and I'm not looking for a serious relationship. I'm certainly interested in meeting new friends and play partners, and enjoy getting to know someone fairly well on an ongoing basis within a club, event or play-party atmosphere and perhaps more if we get comfortable.

My time on the farm is with her.? She supports my outside interest, with no interest in participating beyond joking about the length of rope I keep by the bedside to practice various knots and ties while we watch TV.

Moved this here from the profile section ...

I've always been somewhat of an adventurous type, built a dune-buggy as a teenager, rode a motorcycle through college, learned to fly and owned an airplane for a while, training and riding horses, etc.? Yet I've approached all of these in a somewhat methodical manner rather than wild abandon.? With flying I went on to be a flight instructor and train others to fly, with horses I've learned to do everything from farrier work to minor surgery, tends to be my approach with a lot of things including bdsm activities, where although I'm not a novice, I still consider that I have a lot to explore.

Watching someone melt into sensations, where the body react and the mind shuts off, is delightful. I really enjoy someone who goes weak at the sight and feel of rope.? Floggers, crops, and other smack/thud toys, are fun to use - I like to find the cusp where pleasure is derived from the blend of intense stimulations.? I found that varies widely from person to person and changes with times & situations.? I'm still slowly growing my comfort level with sadistic pleasure ... it has to have a purpose, not an end in of it self.

All-in-all, control, total control, is something I relish. While they can be included, it doesn't require humiliation, or pain, or confinement, it does requires trust and respect.? Does it sound ironic or out of place that I need some amount of trust, understanding, and confidence in a submissive before I can really find my own mindspace that I crave?? Getting inside someones mind requires it, and that's a necessary piece of the kink for me, only its not just kink, its part of understanding & even helping someone to find their own contentment.

Finally, to be clear, for me D/s is a realtime activity, not a cyber-interaction.? I should say that I welcome friends and casual conversations, and don't expect that most messages I send, or receive, are intended to make some sort of hook up, this is more of a sounding board and a place to run some reality checks, see what others are doing, and socialize.? I am most likely to to just say hello to someone and see if there is a basis for conversation ...

Quote for the day: "ride her like you own her"

Some days I'm in the mood for conversation and a sophisticated approach.? Today I just want to tie her up and use the hell out of her.

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