RickBenson

I live a two sided life style, one is the "vanilla, married, business life" the other being in BDSM, as a dominant. And as such require that any relationship or activity be discreet! I have trained and played with submissive women, some single, some being married.

The submissive I seek should be intelligent, a good communicator, (communications between us will be very vital for our relationship) and have an extremely strong, open sex drive, and desires with little or no boundaries! She can be bi-sexual or straight! I am trustful, affectionate, passionate, and protective of any submissive I work or play with. I will honor her limitations, (but will push and expand her boundaries) and will care for her. We will not engage in harmful activities! The submissive I seek will want to experience and experiment with the ultimate in BDSM and sexual enjoyment, and pleasures, and be emotionally comfortable within this life style as a submissive. She will be eager for training in the following:

Exhibitionist/voyeurism,

Demanding/controlling,

Spanking/punishment,

Sex toys/masturbation,

Bondage, blindfolds, restraints,

Paddles/whips, ridding crops,

Oral sex, both giving and receiving,

Nipple and vaginal clamps,

Hot wax,

Electro stimulation,

Anal sex,

Cupping

And exposure to those within the life style, performing for her Dom and or possibly an audience of friends within the lifestyle. The submissive I seek will be trained to become obedient.

I am not looking for a 24/7 relationship nor or a live in relationship but rather someone interested in experiencing the pleasures of a submissive. If you are a single, separated or married woman, who has a BDSM desire to be submissive, is straight, bisexual, bi-curious or if you would like to experiment, contact me!

If any of or all of the above interest you, e-mail me and let’s chat about your desires and needs...