No one else needs to know what you have only told yourself: in your heart of hearts, alone at night with your thoughts, you think you may be submissive. Perhaps by day you are a role model to those around you, but if they only knew the real you, the one that lives inside the other, waiting to find a way out. Perhaps you are single, professional and at work bound tightly by the demands of your job. Perhaps you are a housewife, mother and respected community member. Perhaps while going about your daily life, your thoughts drift to wondering what it would be like to serve another, and not just sexually. Perhaps you are married and afraid to tell your husband what you really want. Perhaps you just want to see what the “dark side” of dominance/submission is all about. The idea of being restrained excites you. The idea of controlled and sweet pain makes you gasp aloud. Blindfolded and hearing steps on the floor coming towards you makes you breathe faster. Flashbacks of a Daddy that spanked you makes you weak in the knees. Or, maybe just the idea of being told what to do, sometimes sexually, sometimes not, gives you a rush. You've never told anyone until now, not even your closest friends. Life is too short not to experience all there is. Thoughts of submission are not perverse, sinful or unusual. Many more of your friends than you suspect have these thoughts and feelings. Your wildest fantasies can become reality. If you are being dominated and controlled, you are no longer responsible for the pleasures you will receive and can submit to them. I have worked with many novices. All limits respected, but tested. I'm a professional, visible, safe and caring. This may be your one and best chance to turn your fantasies into reality. Please write if you want to explore your innermost feelings.