Thank you to everyone that wrote expressing their condolences. My Gram passed on and is at peace now. Sorry if I just deleted your message and didn't respond. I truly do appreciate people taking their time to send the message. So thank you again, and please don't take offense if I didn't respond, there were a lot of messages. I am going to be on and off through out the week and will try to get back to those of you who have written to me.

Due to a rapid decline and seemingly imminent death of a family member I more then likely won't be replying to message or chat requests for a little bit. Please don't get upset or think I am ignoring you. Even if I read the message and don't respond, it does not mean that I am not going to respond, the messages are just kickin it in my inbox. Also if I appear online it doesn't mean I am, it more then likely means I just didn't log out when I left the computer. If you have messaged me all I ask is that you are patient and I will try and respond once things have settled down a bit. Thanks for understanding. Hope everyone has a fantastic weekend, and enjoys the beautiful weather. 

My curiosity is getting the best of me, so I have to ask. It seems that there are many men like using a strap when spanking someone. Why is that? I have gotten more then a few messages that have mentioned a strap. Is there something about that instrument in particular?

I need to get this out:

1. There is a difference between the words your and you're.

2. This site has a spellchecker on everything you send or post, if you can't be bothered to use it then I am more then likely going to delete your message.

3. I am having a hard time sorting through all the messages to find the ones I actually want to send reply's to.

4. If I go to your profile and I see the word slut or the like it is a total turn off, I mean what kind of gentleman uses that word. I am more then likely going to delete your message without a response.

I am not trying to come off as rude or to be a bitch but come on people. Use the damn spell check, and attempt to come off as a semi-intelligent member of the human race. If you are not capable of sending a proofread message then message someone else please. I don't have all the time in the world to slog through loads of shit messages to find worthwhile ones.

     Okay if you have an issue with my weight then please keep it to yourself. I don't need to be called fat by some random Dbag on a website. If you like boney bitches then you can look elsewhere. I beat myself up enough about my weight without some chooch pointing it out. Block me if it is that big an issue for you.

     I had a member message me earlier telling me "What you need is a "diet" and exercise." It was rather uncalled for and I think that if I didn't like something about someone I would just ignore their profile. I don't tend to tolerate asshats very well and I can't abide by someone saying something mean just because they can. I hope whomever has the pleasure of encountering this "gentleman" luck.

Sorry again about the rant.

I got pulled over on my way to work today :/ Thankfully the officer was in a good mood and he only wrote me up for doing 65 in a 55, and not wearing a seat belt. Had he put the actual speed I was going I would have been screwed, probably would have had to go to court. Back to work now, I will answer messages when I get home.