Rheea

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	About Rheea ? Please read all of my profile before you contact me!!!? I took the time to fill out this profile so anybody can see what I'm about and what I'm looking for. Don't be surprised if you get a negative response, rejection or no reply at all, if you can't be bothered to read and follow simple directions. ? (I'm also on a Felfe account under the same username. I'm trying to avoid getting messages from the same people on both sites.) ? I consider myself a gentle and sensuous domme. I don't practice physical bondage, serious sadistic play or hardcore physical discipline. ? I'm NOT a professional domme, service top, kinky sugar baby, or interested in exchanging naughty messages, nudie pics or kinky chat with someone that wants to masturbate online. I'm also NOT a part-time (play) domme, switch or bottom and therefore not interested in providing any sort of fetish delivery, to satisfy any of your kinks. That includes "online domination" as well as anything "dominance" or sexual, per cyber/webcam and phone. Please don't confuse me for (just) a sexually aggressive woman. I'm not one of those women whom you can expect to turn her "dominant streak" on or off, when it's no longer about sex or when it is desirable to you. I'm also not interested in casual sex, "anonymous encounters" or a bootie hook up at a hotel or your home. And let me repeat something again, in case it's not clear: I do not switch, bottom or submit! (Apparently, that's something that must be made very clear, as it seems that some men do not get this if it's only mentioned once). ? I have no desire to deal with married men or those in (vanilla) relationships, that are looking to engage in a "secret relationship" or to help them "explore kink", while being deceitful to their significant others. I'm looking for friends or a long term partner that can and will be honest with those they care about or are involved with. I'm also not interested in men that want me to be their "dirty little secret" and won't be seen with me, in public. In case you didn't understand that..... I do not wish to deal with cheaters and those that have to hide me from their family, friends and neighbors. ? I appreciate a masculine man between 36 to 56 years old. ? I have no desire to date very young men, because I'm not a cougar on the prowl for a cub. I'm not interested in fulfilling someone's fantasy of "Me and Mrs Robinson." If I am old enough to be your mother, I will probably not be interested in more than friendship with you. (FYI: Much younger means anybody under 36!) And I don't care if you think you're "mature enough", "wise beyond your age" or think that "age is just a number". I'm looking for a man with life experience. A a man that doesn't need to still figure out who he is, what he needs and what he can offer his partner. I want a man that has lived life and has already had certain experiences that come with time... and with whom I soon can literally and figuratively "ride into the sunset" with. And no.... I'm not talking about a sugar baby boy that's ready to quit his job and or worldly responsibilities and have me "teach him" and take care of everything! ? I'm also not interested in dating or being in a relationship with men that are more than 10 years older than I. I'd like to grow old with my partner and don't want to be some guy's "fountain of youth" or nurse mate. I don't care how "youthful" or "trendy" you feel or think you look. In most cases that's relatively subjective, anyway. (FYI: more than 10 years older = over 57 years old.) ? The right man will be my long term partner and we will appear as a "normal" couple to the vanilla world.... but in private or around the kink community, we are in a female led relationship (FLR) .... where he's not just a servant, boy toy, sub trainee or meal ticket, but my submissive life mate. - As such, he must be able to be fully sexually available to me. That includes intercourse and not just oral servicing. (Notice: I'm really not interested in men that desire to be in long-term or permanent chastity and hope I will totally depend on other men to satisfy my sexual needs.) ? I'm also not interested in a Mistress-Slave Relationship or a Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship. There will be a basic power exchange (= low protocol), but I don't feel the need to control my sub's every action. I expect him to be a mature adult man that has a fully functioning brain and the desire and ability to use it. ? If you don't have any pics of you on your profile, please by so courteous as to attach one to your first contact message or at least offer to do so, after I've requested one in any of my replies to you. I have pics on my profile, so you know who you're talking to. I expect the same in return. I won't bother to seriously consider any man that won't send me a g-rated and reasonably well taken pic of himself. ?-- In regards to pics: Please make sure it lets me see your face clearly. If I can't recognize you from it, if we were to meet, it's not a good enough pic. Props like low sitting head gear or sunglasses are probably not a good idea.? ? Please check your profile to make sure all of your information is current. I've come across quite a few where the location or age has changed, yet the old data is still listed. You don't need a degree in computer science to update your profile. ? If you are interested in "blackmail" or financial domination, I suggest you contact a pro domme or any domme that mentions "pay for play", a wishlist or any sort of gift or financial tribute, instead -- Since we are on the topic of "getting paid".... please don't ask me to sell you anything like.... used underwear, shoes, blood or my waste products. Like I said before, I'm a lifestyle domme, looking for a long term partner.... and not a professional service provider trying to make money. ? I'm not physically attracted to crossdressers, transvestites, or those into sissification or feminization. I'm "very" straight and therefore not into bisexual or lesbian women. Nope, I'm not bisexual..... and not even curious. Just because there's a lot of porn about this doesn't mean every woman must be bisexual. (FYI: porn is not reality! It's people performing for money.) In that same vein, I have no desire to be that unicorn some couples are searching for and I'm not interested in taking on a couple, even if both parties are submissive. ? I have no interest in a cyber/online or long distance relationship. I won't consider anybody, for more than friendship, if they are further than a 2 hour drive and meeting on a regular basis is unrealistic or nearly impossible. I can't see the possibility for anything serious to develop, unless you have the means to see me, whenever I desire and not just a pre-planned weekend, here and there. In that same vein, I won't accept any promises of relocation "if we click". ? If you wish to message me, please address me by my screen name..... or if you're a submissive and want to stay "in character" you can use Miss Rhea or Lady Rhea. I prefer not to be addressed as Mistress, Goddess, sweetie, baby, babe, sexy bitch, hawtie, honey... or any other honorific or pet name.?And please do not refer to yourself as my (future) sub, servant, or slave, at that time. Please don't just send me "hi" or "how's or going" messages. These bore me to tears. I like intelligent men. If you want to catch and keep my attention, have something interesting to say. ? Don't ask me to leave this site for any other communication media - like yahoo, kik, external chat apps or phone - especially after just having started talking. We'll talk here, for a while, or not at all. ? I'm also not interested in meeting after only a few short message exchanges. I need to know enough about you, to feel comfortable. And I won't meet unless I've seen your face in a recent g-rated pic. I have no desire to end up meeting a creep, unstable personality, serial killer or otherwise undesirable person.? ? I won't accept random drive by friend requests. I'm here to meet real people. I don't collect "friends" because I need to feel popular.? ? Some of my fetishes: FemDom...... FLR....... male orgasm control, tease and denial....... CFNM....... (receiving) foot care.......?(me wearing) lingerie and high heels......... ?MFM 3somes....... oral sex....... kinky vanilla sex. ? My hard limits: (Giving) hardcore physical discipline........ (giving) serious pain delivery...... canes....... whips....... chains....... fisting........ (receiving) anal sex........ (giving and receiving) deep throating and gagging....... (giving) extreme degradation...... (giving) extreme humiliation...... (giving) feminization or sissification...... anything "forced"...... long term or permanent male chastity...... heavy impact play...... bruising........ branding....... cutting....... scat...... TPE and slave ownership..... children or animals..... unprotected sex with non-exclusive or new partners. ?

Here's a little update to my "no pics" rant in the previous journal entry.

On 7/19, I got this unsolicited message:
well missy its that there are too many blackmailers online that is why they will not send any picture to a stranger until trust has been established. too complex for you to comprehend? oh dear then you are ither intellectually challenged are a fraudster are blackmailer.

My reply:
Seriously? You don't know me, yet you accuse me of black mail? Did you read my profile????
I don't request a pic, right away.... but I expect one after a few messages have been exchanged and the man is still trying to be considered as my future partner. Why is that so unreasonable or "criminal" in your mind? Do you expect people to just wing it and hope it will all be good?

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I seriously doubt that most seriously minded men would have messaged me, had they not seen my pics, yet some won't eventually give me the same opportunity?!

The author of the message, mentioned that I could possibly be a blackmailer or looking to defraud. I had actually added a few lines about me NOT being interested in blackmail or findom - several days before that nasty message or my initial rant - because I got too many offers to do just that. Why would I bother to add those lines, if that was exactly my intention, all along? Wouldn't it be smarter to just take those offers?

Interestingly, I tried to look up the profile of this user but couldn't find the "view profile" button. Then I saw this above his message.
Note: This user does not have an active profile.

Who else, here, loathes the lurkers that chastise you for being open and upfront about your preferences and opinion, while you can't check out what they're up to or into?!

What's the deal with guys that won't send a pic, upon request?

I have pics on my profile, so you can see who you're talking to.

I understand that some people are a bit more "shy" or want to hide from those they know in their vanilla life.... but you can't honesty expect me to continue to talk with you and even seriously consider you as my sub, if you can't or won't let me see what you look like.

I've heard so many silly excuses, or they've just vanished.... poof.... after my request for a pic, despite an otherwise interesting exchange. (I wouldn't ask if I wasn't the least bit interested.)

Would you rather have me meet you and then tell you if I don't find you physically appealing? Do you have that kind of time to waste?

Or do you honestly think that physical attraction doesn't matter? I'm almost certain that it does to you. Why shouldn't it matter to me? I'm looking for a life time partner and not just a servant or a temporary "toy".

I saw something like this on another member's page....

A veteran, is someone who at one point in their life wrote a blank check, payable to the United States of America, for an amount up to and including, their life. That is beyond honor and there are way too many people, in this country, who no longer remember that fact.

If you are a veteran... know a veteran... love a veteran... Please support the troops! May God Bless Them All!

I will also add the parents, spouses and children of veterans to this list. I know how hard military life is. I was once a spouse of a man in the military. They all deserve support and recognition.

I keep having to update my profile, adding other information, just clarify what I'm about or not about..... what I'm into or not into..... and what I'm looking for or not looking for. Do people actually read profiles or just look at "pretty" pics? (moan)

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