ABOUT MY VISION
I am not into “scenes,” “play,” “exploring fantasies,” bizarre fetishes, elaborate rituals, complex rules of etiquette, or prurient exhibitionism. Rather, I seek to make authentic female submission just a normal part of my everyday life. That’s more than enough to keep me stimulated. Why settle for the fantasy when you can have the reality?
Some would label my vision a master-slave relationship, but it’s really a custodian-ward arrangement—because I’ll be just as concerned with your well-being as with my own, and because I’ll be the final arbiter of what your well-being consists in. I aspire to reality-based domination rooted in everyday, matter-of-fact patriarchal authority, without airs or pretensions.
That means we’ll engage in normal couples’ activities—making dinner and watching Netflix, a picnic in the park. I’m offering domination, not gratuitous meanness or interminable bullying. You’ll pour me a drink when told, but I’ll say “good girl” and smack you on the ass when you bring it. I do believe in romance, but that’s not to be confused with the indignity of modern dating: I won’t be going out of my way to prove to you that I’m witty, insightful, or informed. My task will be to govern and mentor you, not to be your entertainer. My idea of a romantic moment is when I unlock your chastity belt after returning home from an out-of-town trip.
Variety is the spice of life, so you’ll retain some spheres of semi-autonomous activity. You’ll feel your submission more keenly when your freedom is suddenly constrained than if I tried to monitor your every moment. I’ll allow you a social life. I have no problem with a girls’ night out, provided you first seek permission, which I won’t withhold arbitrarily, and are back by curfew, which I’ll set based on rational considerations. The nature of our relationship won’t be flaunted in public. Nor will it be concealed. The patronization will be subtler, but your deference will still shine through in your tone and posture. You can pick your meals at restaurants, but I’ll be the one ordering them for you. You’ll sometimes be permitted to wear what you please when we go out, but at other times I may want to see you in an outfit of my choosing, and you’ll naturally oblige. I don’t really see a need for a girl to be wearing all that much when at home.
You can have your own opinions provided you express them respectfully and are willing to be corrected without getting argumentative. I’ll scold you as harshly as necessary, but I’m not into casual denigration that’s not called for by actual misbehavior. I know some girls like that, but there’s really no reason for me to call you a dumb cunt all the time when our every interaction will be a reminder of your intellectual inferiority. If you want brute domination, look elsewhere. I’m offering the refined variety.
I’m not looking for a complete doormat and certainly don’t mind some feistiness in a girl. A little pride and willfulness here and there are natural, and I look forward to subduing them—which is, after all, my responsibility, not yours. That you might feel conflicted about your submission has its own special allure. I’ll apply moderate physical chastisement like spanking or paddling as needed, and any passive-aggressive insolence could earn you a slap in the face. I’m not into inflicting physical injury or extreme pain but will do what’s necessary to teach the required lesson and maintain domestic order.
ABOUT ME
I don’t need to say all that much about myself because, for your purposes, I am my vision. Still, a few tidbits may be in order. Physically, I’m 5’6” and fairly muscular with Mediterranean features and a full head of hair. Culturally, I’ve spent most of my life in the US but was born, and have lived, abroad, making me multilingual. I’m an attorney by day but have other passions. My past life in academia has left me a little overeducated, but in the best way (good for intellectual domination, which goes underappreciated). I live in one of the five boroughs of New York City, in a pleasant neighborhood with great dining options.
I’m not expecting to implement my vision overnight. I understand it may involve an adjustment period for you. But I’ve explained where I want to take things, so get in touch if you can see yourself there. Be advised that I don’t like to spend too long just messaging back and forth before having a real conversation. The written word is a poor medium of personal communication, and it’s better to not waste time and find out early if we’re compatible.
