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My Vision
At the outset, let me warn that I am not into scenes, play, exploring fantasies, bizarre fetishes, elaborate rituals, complex rules of etiquette, or any kind of prurient exhibitionism. Rather, I aspire to make authentic female submission just a normal part of my everyday life. Thats more than enough to keep me stimulated, and why settle for the fantasy when you can have the reality?
Some might call my vision a master-slave relationship, but I prefer to see it as a custodian-ward relationshipbecause Ill be just as interested in your wellbeing as in my own, and because Ill be the final arbiter of what that wellbeing involves. I offer reality-based domination rooted in everyday, matter-of-fact patriarchal authority, without special airs or pretensions.
That means well still engage in normal boyfriend-girlfriend activitiesmaking dinner and watching Netflix, cuddling in bed, a picnic in the park. Im offering domination, not bullying. I may tell you to pour me some coffee, but when you bring it Ill say thanks babe as I gently kiss you on the lips and lightly smack you on the ass. So yes, I believe in romance. But thats not to be confused with the indignity of modern datingthat is, I wont be continually going out of my way to prove to you that Im funny, witty, insightful, or ined. My job will be to govern you, not to be your entertainer.
My Rules
Youll usually be allowed to wear what you please when we go out (so long as its both sexy and in good taste), but I may sometimes want to see you in a particular outfit, and youll oblige those preferences. Likewise, youll usually be allowed to wear sweatpants or whatever is comfortable in the apartment, but Ill sometimes want to see you wearing very little. Ill definitely have to approve of your hairstyle, and generally like it on the longer side.
Routine vulgarity and foul language wont be tolerated. Its most unfeminine, and people should be expressing themselves with real words anyways. I also wont tolerate incessant blathering about inane trivia like the shenanigans of celebrities. Youll speak only when you have an actual thought to communicate (or when youre spoken to). I may also have to limit your time on the smartphone if youre as addicted as the rest of the population. Life is short, and Im not about to let you waste large chunks of it in idle distraction.
Ill expect you to clean my apartment once in a while and cook me a meal when possible. My primary motivation isnt to extract free labor, though, so this shouldnt be overly time-consuming. Keeping yourself physically fit and attractive will, however, be time-consuming. I visit the gym about four times a week and will expect you to engage in a similar level of exercise. Youll also have to eat right. Occasional indulgences will be allowed provided your overall perance is satisfactory.
Variety is the spice of life, so youll retain some spheres of autonomous activity. Youll feel your submission much more keenly when that freedom is suddenly constrained than if I tried to monitor every moment of your existence. That means you can have your own social life. Ive got no problem with a girls night out. But youll need to ask for permission first, which I wont withhold arbitrarily. Once were living together, Ill probably establish a curfew.
I believe in freedom of the press, so Ill usually try to avoid censoring what you read and watchthough we may have to sit down and discuss certain topics to ensure youre not absorbing any unhealthy ideas. You can also express your own opinions and disagree with mine. But arguments have to end sometime, and that will be when I say. One argument we wont be having is whether to have sex, because you will have forfeited your right to refuse it (except in case of physical illness). And while Im open to hearing an honest difference of opinion, that doesnt mean Ill tolerate attitude or brattiness. Youll get a lot further with me by crying than by screaming. I do try to be fair-minded, though. Ill scold you as harshly as necessary, but Im not into gratuitous denigration thats not called for by your actual behavior. I also wont punish honest mistakes that you own up to.
Im not looking for a complete doormat and certainly dont mind some feistiness in a girl. A little pride and willfulness here and there are natural, and I look forward to subduing themwhich is after all my responsibility, not yours. That you might feel conflicted about your submission has its own special allure. Still, any rebellion should be the exception and not the rule, because I want to help you become the sweet and delightful little kitten that we both know you can be. There will always be a good girl in there struggling against the bad one. My job is to help her win out and radiate her beauty and grace.
To this end, moderate physical chastisement like spanking or paddling will be applied as needed. Any insolence might earn you a slap in the face. However, Im not into inflicting any kind of injury or extreme pain just enough to teach the relevant lesson and maintain domestic order. Our connection will be much more than physical, of course. I may have you keep a journal reflecting on your feelings and experiences, which well then review together periodically.
The nature of our relationship wont be flaunted in public. But nor will it be concealed. The same dynamics will simply become subtler. Youll have to remain respectful, and any misbehavior will be punished later as appropriate. Youll choose what to order at the restaurant, but Ill be the one who conveys that choice to the server. And while I wont humiliate you in public, Ill still give you orders in a calm, matter-of-fact tone.
My Philosophy
I believe my vision is both authentic and realistically suited to modern life. Its not politically correct. But youre attracted to it because you refuse to sacrifice real fulfillment to one-dimensional feminist ideology. Feminists will always be at war, not only with men, but also with themselves, and for the very same reason. Their ideology forces them to repress and deny their own submissive desires, which they must then externalize into a diabolical patriarchy oppressing them in all things. Their problem with men is that men are standing reminders of what they themselves desire but cannot acknowledge. Its a psychological and spiritual dead end.
Granted that feminists have had some legitimate grievances over the years. The 1950s housewife had reason to feel alienated. But the fact that some s of patriarchal authority have been oppressive (or just plain boring) wasnt a good reason to reject every aspect of patriarchy blindly, as feminists do. Whats really needed is an updated, progressive and consensual patriarchy, and thats exactly what my vision implements. Its all well and good for females to express their personalities and realize their potentials. But that can be assisted by competent male guidance and supervision.
Theres no going back to the Middle Ages or anything like that, but liberal morals must sometimes give way to our barbarian state of nature, which well be living out in a safe and consensual fashion. I dont say that female submission is ordained by the word of God. But I do say that neither sex can find fulfillment by denying and repressing its evolutionary heritage. And while I dont presume that my vision is appropriate for every last human being on earth, I do think it contains a lot of lost wisdom.
All this said, I certainly dont hate feminists. A lot of men spend way too much time complaining about them or, worst, about women in general. That achieves nothing, however, because women arent going to abandon femini
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| Age: 19 |
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