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About ReturnToOwned

Seeking experienced, classy, UN-apologetically strict & demanding (somewhat sadistically trained) Owner for a POTENTIAL 24/7.


I believe in realistic 24/7 TPE if it is to be at all. I ultimately would like to become a 24/7 slave obeying the house rules with the respect they deserve - but I understand just how rare such a thing could be.

Obviously full service cannot occur overnight but should also not develop at a "snail's pace." And I would never rule out a "part-time" TPE arrangement.


Presently I have a very successful career. I have no "ex" and no kids. While I have served over the years, I find that it is now time for true ownership. To that end, I will do what it takes to make it happen.


I believe that a proper slave (who understands why cFnm is so important) possesses a high degree of skill, courage, wisdom and strength - physical and mental. A reserved knowledge of his worth, value to his Owner and value to himself. He is able to put his Owner's needs first- and not when it is convenient for him. To that end, I was taught from very early on what "proper behavior" is. Asking permission for any kind of behavior is always proper. Asking permission is a submissive act. It is presumptuous, rude and lacks restraint & modesty to act without permission.

I read this recently about being alone. So true...

"Solitude is misunderstood. Most people are taught to avoid it, to be ashamed of it, to regret it. With the correct view, however, time spent alone becomes the springboard for all meaningful time spent with others. It is in solitude that the foundation for all goodness in one's life is built."


To be continued...

Taken from a Domme's profile.  It speaks volumes to who i am.


She required:



1. your soul/sole existence is for My amusement and to make My life easier.
2. A thank You note will be sent every time W/we communicate.
3. No smoking.
4. No drinking alcohol.
5. No illegal drugs.
6. No gambling.
7. Be proud of your commitment to your submission.
8. No depression or doubts about the choice of submission.
9. men will sit to urinate - at all times, everywhere.
10. Kneel on a few grains of rice on a hard surface contemplating your commitment to your submission for at least 5 minutes every day.
11. Always be safer sexually.
12. Must be financially and emotionally stable.
13. Be well groomed with clean fingernails, toenails, teeth, body, hair, shoes and clothing.
14. Address Me as Ma'am.
15. Be more polite than imaginable - open all doors, open My car door first, help with coats, pull out chairs, after Women are settled ask for permission to sit from Me.
16. Bring a present whenever meeting with Me or going to Anyone's home including Mine.
17. When writing capitalize all references to Me, Women or Dominants; and conversely, do not capitalize any references to you, men or submissives.
18. No clothing in My home or any space where it is appropriate. If unable to be nude the zipper on your pants will always be down or buttons undone.
19. Do not speak - unless spoken to or when asking for permission from Me.
20. Ask for permission from Me to enter a room, move about a room, sit on furniture, eat, drink, use the bathroom, or speak freely to Anyone.
21. Use as soft a voice as possible.
22. Do not ever turn your back to Me. Learn to exit a room walking sideways or backwards. Learn to turn accordingly when I'm moving about a room you're working or waiting in.
23. Walk slightly behind Me.
24. Do not look at Me.
25. Head up and eyes down.
26. When at rest keep palms of hands up.
27. Do not express opinion about anything unless asked for it.
28. For safety's sake ask for permission from Me to speak freely immediately.
29. Do not ask for anything from Me.
30. Never say "no" to My direction.
31. Communicate with transparency with Me on a daily basis as directed.
32. Must be bi-sexual - not just bi-curious.
33. No crossing legs. Keep them slightly spread for My availability when nude or clothed.
34. Do not touch Me without direction.
35. Do not wear a watch when W/we're together unless directed otherwise.
36. Do not touch handle end of any playtoy.
37. Serve drinks and plates of food with two hands.
38. Leave bathroom door open when using in My presence.
39. Attend all fetish events gleefully on the end of My leash.
40. Clean My home once a week top to bottom including changing sheets, if you're privileged enough to come there.
41. Goals of relationship: courage, transparency, innate trust, discipline.
42. Help Me eat healthy and exercise.
43. Be prayerful.
44. Practice anal stretching, deep throat techniques, and nipple clip endurance.
45. you will be completely unattached or in an openly poly relationship - I will be speaking to your partner(s).

I'll inform you when the rest of these will be appropriate in O/our relationship:
46. Practice orgasm control as directed.
47. men wear only Women's panties for underwear.
48. Women wear no undergarments - whenever possible.
49. men will have clean shaved genitals, underarms and legs.
50. Women will have clean shaved genitals.
51. Refer to yourself as "it" or "this slave" or your given slave name in all verbal and written communication with Me.
52. Wear sign of ownership at all times once you have received it from Me.
53. Walk on tiptoes unless directed not to.
54. Passwords to all lifestyle on-line accounts will be available to Me.
55. Live-in rent for My home $1000./month all inclusive (excludes health insurance, car care and car insurance).
56. Expect discipline punishment from Me once a week.
57. Expect to visit My family in Florida once a year.
58. Prepare My home, food, and playtoys for play parties.
59. Be responsible for you and Me taking medications and doctor's appointments.
60. Write contract including all these protocols when directed to do so.

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