Interesting to see how things change when you don't update your profile for a few years!

At this point, I'm looking to explore the worlds of my Dom and sub family, and see who I meet. If we click, we're friends. If we spark, who knows?

I'm a sadomasochistic submissive. I'm primarily a sexual and relationship bottom, and in scenes I'm an absolute pain slut, but I do occasionally have the urge to share the love with my fellow masochistic brothers and sisters =). I'm not a lifestyler, but I know BDSM is a "must have" in my life on a more than occasional basis.

I'm communicative, I'm insightful, and I know what I want from sex and love and life and relationships. I'm kind, compassionate, and empathetic, yet refuse to be a doormat. I'm much stronger than people assume I am. I'm more than willing to explore the unknown, in fact I relish opportunities to have my point of view or beliefs challenged and enlightened. I'm spiritual, sensual, and romantic, but can be moody as all get-out! Sometimes I wish there was a soundtrack that played over the scenes of my life, because music often expresses through feeling the words stuck behind my lips. I'm not a saint, I'm not perfect, and I'll never be a golden girl, but I will always be honest and sensitive.

I have one condition for my friends and lovers: R-E-S-P-E-C-T, find out what it means to me.

Dealbreakers: Drug use. Personal unaccountability. Kids. Liars. Arrogance. Abuse. Refusal to communicate and/or listen to a person's limits. People who think they know everything and have nothing left to learn.