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About renee87
I'm a lesbian switch, who is looking for primarily, a lesbian switch, or submissive, who enjoys being dominant sexually, and prefers to submit when it comes to daily tasks. I don' have any requirements, just that you be honest, sincere, and willing to take me as I am.
What is "as I am", you ask?
Well, to be honest, I'm blind.
Now this will probably make you all ask yourself if you are sure you want to become involved with me, but i feel that judging me for being blind, would be just as fair as if I judged you, for having brown hair, or being african american, or for being Hispanic, or, for being too short. So on and so forth. yes, I do have to do things differently. yes, it takes a lot more for me to get on in today's world. but it doesn't stop me. I know this is the lifestyle I want to lead, and I'm not going to let my blindness, stop me. I'm fairly new, and I'm not going to deny it. I've not had any realtime experiences, but not because I haven't tried, and not because I'm not willing. Only that most are too narrow-minded, to see me for the intelligent, honest, easy going person I am. Instead, they picture me as a child, who can't do anything, just beause I can't see. this is very untrue, and i want someone who will acknowledge that I am as capable as she is.
What I'm looking for:
yes, I checked all of the boxes, for everyone on the site pretty much, but i'm not interested in online games. i want to meet people in person. I'm willing to get to know doms, dommes, subs/slaves, pretty much anyone who wants to get to know me. i'm up for friends. As far as what I'm looking for otherwise, I want a woman who is willing to take the time to get to know me, decide that I'm not a bad person, and who wants a d/s relationship, full time, 24/7. I'm not looking to rush into anything, I want us to slowly build something so that you can come to trust me. Yes, of course there will be sex involved, but it is not on the top of my list. And yes, i did say i was looking for a switch maybe, who was interested in being dominant sexually and submissive otherwise, but if you really do want to get to know me, and you think we could work something out, and you are completely submissive, i'm not unwilling to see where it goes. Men, understand that i'm not looking for any kind of sexual relationship, or anything more than friendship with you. Dommes, I will not, and repeat, will not, submit to you on a full time basis. I would like, though, to get to know a couple dommes, who can mentor me, and help me develop into the domme I know I can be. The only reason that I consider myself a switch, really, is because I don't find myself to be very dominant sexually. In every other aspect, though, I am very dominant, and don't waver from that.
May you always find shade and water
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Thought for today:
I'm sitting here tonight, pondering something.
I read a post on the forums, in which, a man asked if he and his wife were "Gorean wannabes" since they didn't practice the Gorean lifestyle on a daily basis, but could "switch into Gorean mode at the drop of a hat"
The overall response was, that they didn't really practice the Gorean lifestyle, and they obviously weren't Gorean, since Gore is a way of life, not a kinky game, that only occurs in the bedroom.
Now, if it is true, that this couple aren't Gorean, because they were only practicing in the bedroom, does that mean, that those who only submit in the bedroom, are not really submissive?
I found it to be a rather intriguing thought, and probably should post this as a board topic but, am a bit shy.
Let me know what you think if you happen to read this and have an interest in the topic.
I have in fact, written a few submissives, showing interest, just to find out, that their only interest was in being dominated sexually.
Now, I personally, am dominant all day, every day, in everything I say and do.
It's not something I do on purpose (especially since I don't currently have a submissive collared), but it's my personality--who i am.
I suppose that wanting a bit of spice in a vanilla relationship isn't bad, but if that's so, then a woman need not tell me she is submissive, in order to get my attention, just for me to find out that she only likes domination in bed.
A relationship like that would never last for me, because I would expect to be given complete control--permanent control--not something that changes as soon as we walk in or out of the bedroom.
You either want my domination or you don't.
Ok, whew! :::end rant:::
May you always find shade and water,
Renee |
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