ReginaAstrum

Anyone who finds me attractive please read the following requests before sending a message.

• Use proper grammar and spelling- As an English Major I do not respond well to the de-evolution of the English language being used in casual correspondence. If you have a problem with this please use a word processing program.
  
• Read my profile- I am rather clear here about my feelings concerning relationships. Please read and ensure that I am open to what you are asking before you message me.
  
• Understand that if you can’t understand or follow those two simple requests that I will either ignore you or mock you shamelessly depending upon the level of offense that you commit. __

What I am doing here
I am still very new to dating within the kinky scene so understand that when I say I want to take things slow I mean it. I am here to make friends and explore possible relationships. This does NOT mean that I will automatically go out with anyone who asks me. I am chronically shy and introverted to the point that it takes me a while to get to know someone well enough to make that decision.
In relationships I am a switch with submissive preferences. I have met VERY FEW men who bring out the dominant side of my personality but it has never been a good experience within the relationship so I prefer to be submissive. As a submissive person I am NOT a slave. I enjoy being dominated in the context of a relationship in private but I am not a 24/7 slave. I am an independent woman with a life beyond any relationship. I’m not looking for a Master to run every aspect of my life I am looking for a partner who likes to take charge when we are together.
I AM NOT POLYAMOROUS I am 100% monogamous and I do expect that within a relationship. This is not negotiable, I have serious trust issues linked to this and I have no interest in changing my mind. Within the same vein I am not promiscuous, I do not know where it comes from but there seems to be an expectation that all kinky women are poly, promiscuous and bi-sexual or at least hetero-flexible. I am not any of the above so please do not ask if you are looking for these qualities.


To anyone who wishes to be friends.
I am always looking for new friends so please don’t hesitate to add me as a friend. I love to get to know new people, especially when we have interests in common.
I am a college student, an English Major to be specific. I am new to the B&D community and haven't had a lot of experience with others who share my interests. I am a writer and finally within striking distance of finishing a novel for once.


I am interested in making new friends who share my kinky and mundane interests. I am a gamer geek for table top and LARP. Unfortunately I do not play video games or MMOs but I don't mind hearing about interesting ones. My biggest vice in the world is books, all you have to do is give me a good fantasy or sci-fi and I will go away and cease to exist to the world until I finish it.
I am also very crafty, I crochet, knit, spin, and sew I used to be very talented at all of these but I am effectively having to re-learn it all so I am back to being a novice.

If you want to get to know me a little bit better you can read my writing at WritersCafe.org my user name is Regina_Astrum there too. I also have a http://bobitchka-west.deviantart.com/ for writing, photography and pictures of some of my craft projects. I am always happy to talk to fellow crafters, gamers and writers or otherwise interesting people so don't hesitate to say hi