i was an owned pet for 4 years but my owner was killed in a motor cycle accident, i am on the road to healing but looking to meet new people and get back into the swing of things because i have found with out that ONE to care for and love i feel lost.

Not looking for a play partner, i am seeking someone to build a life with.

i can not relocate, i just bought my first home and do not want to sell it, plus i have minor kids still at home and do not want to take them from their family here. i am my mothers only child and i wish to remain close to her since my father passed away 3 years ago.

i am NOT looking for a sugar daddy to pay my bills, i have my own income and can take care of me and my kids.

i have 5 kids and 3 step kids, my oldest does not live at home and second oldest lives a few blocks away so goes back and forth, my youngest three,,, were my owners step kids, they have not seen their real dad in 4 years by his choice, my Owners kids are not living with me but are a big part of my life and always will be.

it might have been different if we had ended our relationship on our own terms, but He was ripped from my life suddenly and a part of me will always belong to Him, as it should be, He was my first and only Owner and i owe Him the respect i gave Him in life for all He did.

i am NOT looking for someone to step in and raise my kids or be daddy to them, i did just fine raising them alone before i met my Poppa Bear,

i am looking for someone to build my life with, someone to spend my time with, someone who knows there is more to life then what happens in the bedroom.

That said i am not just a bedroom pet, but i also try to respect the fact my kids, friends, neighbors and community in general do not need to know my lifestyle choices.