Collarspace.com

Looking for a masochist near Cambridge or north London, ideally for regular sessions.... I'm particularly into CP - canes, paddles, floggers or anything of that nature. I have a reasonable toy bag, like most people who've been doing this for a few years. Apart from that, I'm happy to talk about other stuff which works. There will always be a large element of control involved too. Scenes could be strict and punishment-based, or just work with sensations. Basically work within your limits, experience and expectations. I'm not so much into rope though. I'm perfectly able to secure you in position, but it doesn't do anything for me, so I don't have a repertoire of fancy ties. Important: I'm not single. My partner knows and approves - she's sub, but isn't so much into impact or pain play, so is happy for me to do this with other people. She won't be involved in sessions. You do need to know though that sex is not going to be part of this, nor am I looking for a poly/LTR/affair thing.