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Hetero Male Slave, 47,  Great Falls, Montana
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Last Online:


 Male Slave

 Great Falls 


 Willing to Relocate

 6' 0"

 220 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Femdom Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:



 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Historical Shows


 Intellectual Discourse



 Flea Markets

 Renaissance Faires




 Canes and Crops


 Fire Play

 Sensory Deprivation

 Serving as a Maid/Butler

 Wax play


 Body Art


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard



 Classical Music

 Rock Music



 Antique Shows

 Coffee Shops

 Garage Sales



 Martial Arts



 Body Worship

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community


 Hair Pulling

 Knife Play

 Masks (On Partner)

 Massage (Giving)



 Speech Restrictions

 Card Games


 Science Fiction


 TV News

 Alternative Medicine



 Liberal Politics


 Political Activism

 Goth Lifestyle

 Eighties Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Seventies Music










 Curious About:

 Anal Play




 Foot Worship





 Orgasm Control

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play


 Rubber Fetish






 Female Supremacy

 Victorian Household


 Street Hockey


 Conservative Politics

 Pop Music


 Hip Hop Music


I was a Dom for many years until a several years ago when I began training in the Old Guard traditions and something snapped. Something changed. I am becoming redefined....I dont see this lifestyle as a game. Games get played and then put away. To me its more like a dance. Shifting, evolving, ever-changing, And someone has to lead.

I cant say I will or wont do anything. That depends on the inspiration received. I hope to get to a point and be dedicated enough to someone that I would be willing to do just about anything (insert common sense here). I learned my Sirs Maams and Misss as a child. Their just good manners lifestyle or no. Theyre signs of respect... Im a big guy and I have a few well earned scars. No one would guess that I am a slave in the mundane world. I look like what I am, a vet and an er biker. That being said I have no interest in femiminization or sissyfication. This is for the protection of others as much as myself-its just a scary scary sight. Im just not that kind of man. Im more the type someone would want with them as a bodyguard. The dynamic I can see myself comfortable in would be a Queenknight role but that is of course no longer my choice... I will not respond to the messages I get here saying you are mine now. Join site xyz. Im a slave, not a fool. Want to get to know me? Wonderful. lets talk. One cannot know too many people and knowledge comes from the most interesting places.. This is an adventure and Im living it..... Why did I choose slavery? Good question, thank you for asking. I am by nature an extremist. I do everything 100. When I rode bikes I joined clubs and wanted to be the toughest. When I joined the SCA I joined fighting households and wanted to be on the vanguard. Now, after years in the lifestyle I am learning Old Guard. I enjoy the structure of being a part of something as well as the responsibilities for making whatever that is the best I can. I want to be the best and the only way to do that is start at the bottom and earn everything I get. Every victory, every kindness, every right, every smile I want earn. I want nothing given. IF I ever choose to top again I want to have earned the term Master. If I do not choose to top again I want enough knowledge and skill that I can if needed be the alpa slave and be able to run a kennel for my owner, to be able to make her life easier. Never say never right? I just re-read all this and there are far too many Is in it. Its no longer about me. More to come as lessons are learned. I am living the adventure.

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Journal Entries:
1/15/2018 7:49:40 AM
Note.... When done properly it's amazing how quickly sternness can throw the head into a spin!

10/3/2017 9:01:04 PM
Tonight is a tough night. I've been basically running my business and otherwise playing hermit this year but tonight the feelings that keep me from walking away from submission are rolling around in my gut. Seems the longer I go without "the lifestyle" the deeper the need grows. Will I never be my own man again?

1/1/2017 1:50:40 PM
Home from Standing Rock. Maybe its time to give the lifestyle a try again.

1/23/2016 7:35:19 PM
Still alive gang, I just haven't been hanging around here much. Too busy living but I admit I've had a wonderful conversation here tonight with a fairly amazing person that reminded that this too is a part of life. Some things just can't be ignored. Having a difficult time getting away from this site because of it. Remember, life begins just outside the comfort zone!

7/27/2015 8:56:09 PM
What is it about verbal humiliation? In the "real world" few are brave enough to even think about it. My personality type would not tolerate it, so why does even the thought put a knot in my gut when it comes to the lifestyle. Is it possible to love what you hate?

1/30/2015 7:53:38 AM
Latest update. I'm back in my hometown, the Greater Cincinnati area. I'm more than happy to meet folks for coffee or a drink but I just haven't had time yet to get active in the scene yet. Same goes for the pagan scene and the SCA. I want to look around for a bit first and besides, at the moment I've been busy getting established and enjoying playing tourist. Its interesting seeing my hometown through new eyes and I'm getting a greater appreciation of where I'm from. Have fun gang, live the adventure. I know I am!...................................................Oh, BTW-when I do get back in the swing of things I'd be most inclined to look up the more traditional side of things and the Old Guard community.

8/1/2014 6:54:05 AM
Well moving hasn't happened yet. My job here seems to like me and not want to let me go. I'm slowly, slowly coming out of my shell and looking around at options. I guess you could say I'm comfortable but open to options. After all, comfortable can kill an adventure.

1/24/2014 6:53:20 PM

I'm not actively seeking at this time. This doesn't mean I've given up. It simply means that I'm perfectly content hibernating for the winter like a grumpy ole bear and storing up my nuts for next spring's adventures. 

12/15/2013 10:46:36 AM

Well I've decided to move. Late Feb. is the goal. I'm probably heading for Memphis but OKC, Cincinnati and the Gulf Coast are all on the short list as well.. The where really doesn't matter as much as the adventure. If anyone has info on those town's lifestyle scene feel free to get in touch and let me know.  

12/1/2013 12:56:06 AM

My time being mentored by Miss Az has ended. Sadly it has not ended well. That being said I still think she is an amazing person with a huge heart. I will not talk bad about her nor let anyone else do so around me. I am going to take the honourable path. And no, I don't want to talk about it. it is done and that's all that needs said.

11/3/2013 9:33:35 PM

Oh My God! Watching a travel show called Parts Unknown that is focusing on Japan and their talking about shibari and BDSM! how the world has changed!

10/28/2013 10:21:53 AM

Thinking creatively can be a bad idea. These are 3 things I learned last night
A) Jimmy Buffett is a poor role model. B) There is no such thing as a slave's union. C) We are not allowed to go on strike. D) even if one is on strike, singing an arabic filk of Bob Marley called "No Woman no Drive" is a a bad idea. Do not try this at home kids!

9/29/2013 12:41:49 AM

learning to keep my mouth shut. its a hard lesson.

9/25/2013 8:49:46 AM

"Chivalry differs from sexism in that sexism insists you can't do something while chivalry insists that it doesn't matter whether or not you can do something, I'd like to do it for you, if you don't mind. " - Jonathon Hammond

9/2/2013 9:17:31 PM

     I was talking to a friend the other day who is just discovering the lifestyle. He and his girl read 50 Shades of Grey and it got them talking. he swore by the book. UNTIL...I handed him Screw the Roses Send me the Thorns. Needless to say he was speechless. he had no idea. Not to toot my own horn but I think I came up with a brilliant analogy. I told him "50 Shades of Grey is to D/s what Charmed is to Wicca.

8/30/2013 12:27:59 PM

Physical pain is just that, pain. in a way enjoyable but even if it isn't it feeds the ego to see what I can take. In some ways its counter-productive to my training because I take pride in taking it......Now when the chain tightens around my neck, when am pushed down without concern or told to STFU......THAT does it! The control (or lack thereof) sends me right into that place in the head where I KNOW my place and need to simply obey and trust. The mental side of this goes so so much deeper than the physical.

8/28/2013 8:07:43 AM

I know I need to post more here but between work and chores I just can't seem to find the time. I'm documenting this adventure in my private journal so at least there is something written. I spoke with my Mentor about posting pictures here and was told its not a good idea at this point. I can send them on request but am not to post any publicly until I have been on this path a bit longer.

8/18/2013 10:25:28 PM

A quick note. I'll only "like"or "love" the things I've experienced. Things that I have not experienced yet but am interested in are in the "curious" spot for just that reason. I can't say whether I'd enjoy something until its been experienced. As I said earlier, I'm new to this side of things but under my mentors care I hope I am rapidly learning. 


8/10/2013 2:07:28 PM

In Springfield for the weekend. I/ve been away from home long enough. Its suprising to think I miss Joplin.

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