Collarspace.com

I have always hated writing an introduction. How much is too much and what is not enough. A fine balance.

I am hoping to make some friends here and if something more should arise from a friendship then so be it. My last venture here was with a similar intent. I have found if you can survive the onslaught of new "finds" that there are friends to be made here.

I have been raised in the south and believe in manners and common courtesy. While we may not have the same destination in mind there is no need for rudeness or downright nastiness. Let's each of us enjoy OUR journey and be accepting of the differences that drive us.

I guess that is enough to start out with. A picture will join the profile soon.

Be blessed and happy in YOUR journey!

8/10/2008 5:16:02 AM
OK - two words - married men.

I don't understand how your profile speaks of honor, truth, respect and loyalty when you tell me you are married. {Disclaimer: If both members of the couple are involved in the lifestyle are not those of whom I am speaking}The very fact that you are married and seeking others outside of your marriage tells me:
 
1. you do not honor your vows,
2. when you use the word "discreet", it tells me you are lying to someone about your whereabouts,
3. you do not respect your spouse or me if I must be your dirty little secret, and
4. how can you expected to be loyal when you are sneaking around? You can be loyal to me but not to your wife????

I want a man who is proud to have me on his arm, one who respects himself, one who has integrity.

Are you out there?
8/9/2008 4:02:11 PM
I know that many people come and go through this particular portal. Most have the same complaint - tired of the wannabes. This has given me food for thought. We all have different expectations for our lives. Each person we come into contact brings their expectations with them as well. This new perspective has taught me more about what OTHERS want more than their understanding of what I want. How could you possibly know what I want from reading just a few words on my profile. Deliberately I have not placed a photo for the same reason. I, too, like to put a face to the words. First I like to HEAR about you more than I need to see a picture. Is it any wonder that the minute an offer comes for me to see your private parts that my interest immediately dies? Or if your letter is full of demands? I believe in the saying "We treat others how to treat us." I will treat you with respect unless you show me you would rather be treated otherwise. Please do not write and demand anything. Demands and disrepect get you ignored.
What I truly hope to find here are people to converse with, that share the same love for a lifestyle that is based in respect and trust. I hope each of us finds what it is we seek.
MissSweetsTreats
 
 Age: 25
 Wuppertal, Germany