Rcrdomredux85

I’m newly single after a long-term relationship and finally have the space to reconnect with the Dominant side of myself that’s been simmering under the surface for too long. I’m not looking to rush into anything serious, but if the right dynamic naturally grows, I’m open to seeing where it leads.

About Me:

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  40, male, based in Indiana
  



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  Built like a bear: big, strong, grounding. If you like feeling small and protected, we’ll probably click
  



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  I work in education and travel often, especially in the summers
  



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  I lived in Japan for nearly a decade, speak Japanese pretty well. I'd be interested in relocating for the right person. 日本語でも大丈夫です。お気軽にメッセージください。 Mixi2とLINEも使っています。少しお話してから、IDをお伝えします。
  



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  I love to read, cook, tinker with electronics, and experiment with coffee brewing
  



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  I game casually but don’t live in front of a screen
  

Kink & Dynamic Preferences:

Let’s start with the limits:
❌ Scat
❌ Ageplay
❌ Anything that risks your health/safety

Beyond that, I’m pretty open. My key interests include:

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  Obedience training
  



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  Petplay
  



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  Cosplay
  



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  TPE / Free use dynamics
  



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  Curious about Gorean-style structures (though I haven’t explored them deeply yet)
  

I usually score high on BDSM tests in:
✔️ Dominance
✔️ Sadism
✔️ Pet Owner
✔️ Degrader

That said, every person is different, and I believe in shaping the dynamic around you, not just a checklist.

I’m not looking for a vanilla relationship with occasional kink. I want the D/s dynamic to be the foundation, something we live and breathe together, even while navigating daily life. Life comes first, but I can be your Dom 24/7: steady, present, and engaged.

About You:

I’ve dated across a range of ages, but I tend to click best with women between 23–40. I have a definite weakness for shorter, petite women, especially if you enjoy that physical and psychological contrast of power and size.

More important than your appearance, though, is your mindset. I value openness, submission, and a desire to explore what a real power exchange can feel like over time. Communication is absolutely key, expect me to check in often with you and want to hear how you are doing/what you are thinking.

If something here struck a chord—whether it turned you on or just made you curious—don’t be shy.

Tell me what you’re into. Ask me something. Or just say hi.