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Hello Dominant Ladies
I am looking for the perfect combination of love and cruelty, scene and vanilla. Looking for that strong Mistress that can drop me to my knees with a look, yet we can cuddle on the couch and watch movies together. Looking for a Mistress cruel enough to leave welts and bruises, and give hot passionate kisses while she's doing it, then give the soft loving aftercare when she's done abusing my body. Thank You for your time, and here are the main points:
*OUTSIDE THE SCENE:
(Although my mind is never really out of the scene, lol)
*Love movies: action, comedy, sci-fi, horror. Every once in awhile a chick flick or drama will catch me. I go from John Wayne to Robin Williams to Hugh Jackman to Scarllett Johanson to Angelina Jolie to Melissa McCarthy.
*Love music of all types except Opera and "gangsta wrap. Like old school rap; MC Hammer, Run DMC, Sir Mixalot. Hate "pop a cap into a bitch, hoe's ass" lyrics. Also like some country. Like Rock from the 60s to present, though mainly 70-80s. Love 50s Doo Wop. Like old Sinatra, Sammy Davis Jr, and Motown.
*Am an ex jock in high school and college; FB, Basketball, and track. Love watching college FB; love March Madness. Keep up with Bengals and Reds. And the Cats. Am a HUGE Ohio State fan, esp during football season. And Yes, I yell at the TV screen, lol!
*Played FB and Basketball at small NAIA schools, but didn't graduate.
*Did 6yrs in the Ohio Army Nat'l Guard, as an E3 and E4. Used GI Bill some until it collapsed.
*Have had MANY jobs, but mainly been a construction inspector for 25yrs.
*Have a VERY sarcastic, fairly quick sense of humor. If I'm not picking on you, you've lost my interest. Richard Pryor, Don Rickells my comedy idols. Bill Cosby, Robin Williams, Sam Kinnison too.
*Mixed with the sarcasm, though, is a poet from time to time. I have written about 80 poems over the years on various topics, mainly heartache as a teenager and early 20s. Will give the right woman all my heart and soul if the connection is right. I have a Knight in shining armor side if you can get to it.
*Also an animal lover. Love dogs, hate cats. Kittens get a pass till they grow up however.
*Like barhopping and dancing from time to time. This white boy CAN dance pretty decent if I do say so myself.
*Love amusement parks and roller coasters. HATE rides that spin!
*Love Halloween and haunted houses. I decorate my front yard like a graveyard for all Oct.
SCENE-WISE:
*Looking for a emotional connection with a cruel loving Mistress that revels in absolute control at all times, even in vanilla moments. Looking for a Mistress that will slap the hell out of me because she enjoys it, then grabs my ponytail, pulls me to her face, and sucks my tongue out of my mouth.
*My biggest goal is to keep my Mistress turned on and happy as much as possible.
*Am VERY submissive to very strong dominant women. Would not consider myself a slave, though, as i'm still an alpha male in the "real world." Although a truly strong Domme could probably train me to be whatever she wanted.
*LOVE women in tight leather and high heeled leather boots! Thigh high boots instantly get my attention, get my pulse racing, and make me want to drop to my knees! Tight sexy clothes and heels of any sort will do though. Like a little bit of a dark goth look, with smokey eye shadow and dark clothing, while in the scene.
*Love a women that likes to flirt and seduce. Sexiness is more mental than physical any day. Love a woman that knows that and uses it to her advantage. Whole heartedly believe any strong woman can seduce any man she wants any time she wants.
*After much consideration, though, i must qualify myself as a partial switch, as i love playing a woman's body like a fiddle from time to time.
*I have just began to let out my Feminine side, and have began exploring crossdressing. I hope my Mistress will accept us both. The more I explore with makeup and wearing bras & panties, the more I enjoy it. I have chosen the name Violette Banshee because purple is my favorite feminine color, and my feminine side indeed screamed like a banshee until I let her out.
Must admit to being a bondage slut big time. Nothing more erotic than being completely, tightly bound, gagged, and completely helpless while Mistress uses all her toys on me. Like the idea of being left tied up for long periods while Mistress goes about her important schedule.
*Am NOT a pain slut, but will concede to a decent amount if i'm tied up first. Not able to endure limit crossing pain without the tight strict bondage. Am totally willing to be pushed passed my limits once rendered completely helpless, however.
*I believe my biggest turn on are verbal humiliation, extremely strong authority, degradation, and humiliation. The crueler you speak to me and treat me, the more I fall in love with you. I could easily be your dog, horse, sissy, stool, or bench. Water sports also highly acceptable.
*Am looking for an eventual long term femdom relationship, but am willing to play some while searching.
*HARD LIMITS: No scat, no infant play, no men.
*Long term I am looking for a loving emotional connection to go with the kink, for a complete FLR.
*Believe total, absolute honest communication is the key to ANY relationship, but even more so in The Scene.
In summary, I am looking for the perfect combination of cruelty and love. I need a sadistic Domme into total control mentally and physically, who also enjoys the occasional cuddle
That pretty much describes me. Want to know anything else just ask. Thank you for your time.
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