Do not mistake this for the usual "Master","Mistress","Dom","Sub",rule book "slavehood" you read about online.This is a different world for a different type of individual.This is reality.
You are a slave by choice;you are my slave by consent.The essence of your slavery requires that you have no rights in this relationship beyond those I choose to give you.No,
this isn't fair,however the practice of slavery is not about being fair,and any other arrangement would by definition,not be slavery.
I am not better than you,nor am I always right.I am simply the one in control while you are the one being controlled.The equality and balance of our consensual Master/slave
relationship begins and ends in the power exchange and the gifts of submission and dominance that we both agreed to give one another.
Recognize how selective I am and how special you are to be my slave.You are among the few and fortunate one of those people who is able to live your dream of being a slave.When accepting my collar,you do so with the knowledge that your lifestyle would be
inexorably changed,and that your outlook would have to change to accommodate it. You began in training and remain in training this is a process that as no end.You learn how to put my needs and desires ahead of yours at all times.You continue to learn appreciation for service,both when it brings you joy and when you would prefer solitude and your own pursuits.You continue to learn to how to take satisfaction and personal pleasure in pleasing me,even when the task assign to you may be unpleasant in its nature.You continue to learn how to accept the answers you are given and how to be accountable for your own behaviour as judge solely by me...discovering the true meaning of unquestioning obedience and unfailing loyalty.As your Master I have assumed a great responsibility for training and disciplining you,and you must respond in kind by applying yourself fully in training and service as my slave. At its basic level,slavery is quite simple.You must know who you are; you are my slave.You must know your purpose; your purpose is to serve me....and you must know where your pleasure comes from; your pleasure comes from serving and pleasing me. Easy to say,not so easy to do.Expect to work a life time on perfecting your service to me.
1.Self Awareness and Personal Growth
Your first duty is to yourself. Without a healthy amount of self respect and a firm belief in the validity of your choices, you can be of no use to anyone, particularly me. You will remember that slavery is not about low self esteem or self depreciation. It is not avoiding life's responsibilities at another's expense. It is not about being or becoming a less intelligent, less engaging or inclusive person. Rather it is about putting all of those qualities to their best use in my service. You must do your best to preserve and expand your emotional health, maintain your sense of clarity and purpose, and uphold your willingness to carry on, despite roadblocks or mistakes.
You must be aware of your strengths and talents, and must gladly offer them to me as your Master for my own purposes. From the most exhilarating sexual experience to the most mundane task, whatever you do should be geared toward the growth of our relationship and your personal growth within it. You must always be willing to learn and expand your horizons for the betterment of our relationship. You are not a victim or a martyr, and you can never advance in your training or be productive to me thinking in those terms.
You must not "keep tabs" on issues of fault, but accepting responsibility for your behaviour alone. Your training is not designed to create the perfect Master, but instead to transform you into the ideal slave. This thought should remain foremost in your mind.
I may seek your opinion, and when asked, you will offer them with forthright honesty. However, in all cases you must remember that as valuable as you consider your counsel to be, in the end, only I can determine its importance. Your duty is to honour my choices and express gratitude for the part you may have played in them. You do not have any rights to "speak your mind" that are not granted to you by me. When done respectfully, you will find that I am generally open to discuss anything, but always remember that this is a privilege granted, not a right bestowed.
Becoming a good slave is a challenging aspiration, and one that requires practice and perseverance. Everything you do in the context of this relationship is meant to be of service. Whether my mood is lenient or strict, demanding or relaxed. I expect you to serve in any number of ways, and at my convenience.
It is your duty to be aware of my comfort and to familiarize with my needs. You must learn my routines, my habits, my passions, and how best to anticipate and accommodate them. Those needs that aren't anticipated should be carried out at the instant of my command.
Service should not draw attention to itself. It is meant to be unobtrusive, yet always available. Your actions should never demand thanks or acknowledgement, nor should you lead me to believe you expect them. You must remember that the best forms of service weave themselves gracefully into the fabric of the experience without disrupting the intricacies of its pattern. Service is not meant to be inflicted, but interlaced.
Unhesitating obedience is my due and your duty. You are obliged to approach me if obedience creates a question or concern, but only with the proper attitude and only at appropriate time. It is never correct to disobey me in public or in any situation where my Mastery over you might come into question by others. Not only would that be embarrassing to me, it would shame you as well.
Obeying the rules set forth for you proves to me that you trust me and are willing to live by my codes and values. It teaches you what is expected of you, and leaves no room for ambiguous notions of blame. Obedience demonstrates to me that you are trustworthy and can be depended upon.
4. Attitude and Respect:
The structured nature of a Master/slave relationship demands an acknowledgement of a hierarchy. Within larger structure, the adoration you feel for me can be recognized through the use of a prescribed form of address. You must address me by title when speaking with me or speaking about me, unless you are in a situation where it would cause embarrassment to me or to others. Even at those times, you should make every effort to recognize the differences between us.
I must always be approached with respect, with a tone of voice that does not indicate anger, frustration or exasperation. You must ask permission to speak freely, and if it is granted, be certain that you can convey your thoughts calmly, logically and without redundancy. You must remember that the opportunity to use your voice is as easily lost as it is contracted, and you must preserve an attitude of graciousness and gratefulness while speaking with me.
Your demeanour is as important as the word you choose. The appropriate stance is never determined or defiant, but open and accepting. Unless given leave to do otherwise. I should always see you with downcast eyes, open palms and formal posture.
The preservation of your "slave head space" is of utmost importance, and can be sustained by subduing uncultivated behaviours. You may be playful, spontaneous or fun loving, but cannot maintain your focus on servitude if you are agitated, noisy or unfocussed. You must learn to demonstrate self restraint and moderation. It is impossible to be attentive to my needs if you are engaged in activities that don't include me. You must always remember that you always represent me and are the visible evidence of my training.
Removing your clothes in my presence is not so much a sexual act as it is a symbolic one. Nudity represent the removal of all barriers that would keep me from my slave. It indicates your desire to hide nothing, to keep no secrets, and to be available to me at all times. It is a constant reminder of who you are and what that means. Nudity in my presence is a privilege that allows you to throw off the outside world and immerse yourself in the world I offered you.
As a symbol of my ownership of you and your acceptance of that ownership, you will wear my collar at all times. The collar you wear is not a gift, nor is it yours. This is my collar, and you will wear it with respect and honour as my slave.
5. Acceptance of Discipline:
Punishment is a necessity for training and should be considered a gift since administering punishment is not something I enjoy or have any desire to do. That said, it is my responsibility to maintain the power exchange within our relationship, and this will sometimes entail punishment when in my judgement, it is necessary. With punishment comes the return of clarity and form, and the ability to reason based solely on the heart, not on social precepts which so often hold you back. It leaves you with a profound understanding of structure, reflective wisdom and a challenge for the future. At its best, punishment produces gratitude since it allows you to return to a state of servitude and balance with me as your Master.
It is up to you to understand the difference between punishment and erotic pain, and not to confuse them. It is up to you to accept that punishment is a part of our lifestyle and can be administered without erotic elements, and as often as is necessary to accomplish a change in unacceptable behaviours. It is inappropriate for you to ask for punishment. Always remember that I decide what behaviours need correction and how best to correct them.
You should do all in your power to make punishment as unnecessary as possible. It is appropriate for you to ask for my guidance in hopes of correcting a behaviour before it reaches the punishment stage. Further, you must confess any and all disobedience in accordance with the concept of absolute honesty. An infraction unconfessed is a lie. You must remember to ask for explanation if you are unclear on something, and understand the failure to ask will not absolve you from consequences.
You do not determine any aspect of your sexuality. As with all other facets of your life, your sexual drive, creativity and enjoyment are useful only in service to me. You must remember that in my eyes, sexual service, while enjoyable to both of us, should not be any more or less important than any of the other tasks you are assigned. Failure to perform properly, or performance that lacks enthusiasm is a sign of disrespect and is as punishable as any other act of disobedience.
You are obliged to meet my sexual needs on demand, and obliged to understand you may be put to better use elsewhere.
You must remember that sexual release is a reward for good behaviour. Your personal pleasure is at my discretion, and is not determining factor in sexual situations with me. You must strive to please without regard to your own pleasure. To be sent away without release should only be disappointing if you have failed me in some way, and that disappointment can only be levelled at your own performance.
In all things, you will remember that your choice to serve me was consensual, that you have been allowed the freedom to live the life you have chosen, and that you will express your gratitude for the gift I have bestowed on you through dedication to my service, adherence to my rules, obedience to my will, and compliance to my desires.