Not exactly sure what I'm looking for to be honest. I've been in the lifestyle for 8 years. I want someone with similar interests as me who can hold a conversation. Someone I can hang out with and feel comfortable around. I'm a new age hippie flowerchild if you will, I'm a geek I play DnD and I'm in a light saber fight club, I have a strange sense of humor, and my friends and animals are my everything. I am an aspiring writer, but for now I work part time at 2 different jobs. I'm a danger junkie. I'm shy at first, but once you get to know me I never shut up. If you think you can keep up with me and if you're interested in getting to know me deeper than just a BDSM level let me know. BDSM is my lifestyle choice it doesn't define me as a person.