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rangerandredhead

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We're a couple that could be classified as switch although neither of us prefers to top.

We're new to the alternative lifestyle but eager to learn with the right top(s). We are willing to play either together or separately.

We're hoping to find someone to work with on occasion, maybe a few times a month. Someone who can ease us gently into this but be harsh when necessary.

We're both prior military, we have a family and 'real' lives and do not have any interest in a 24/7 lifestyle.  At the same time, we are not just looking for a one shot deal, redhead in particular understands her need for the occasional scene to help her recenter.  Our children come first, and most of the time we can't play together because babysitters are hard to come by here.

Because we can't put both of our information in the main section...

Ranger is 31, 5'10", ~175 lbs. Shaved bald up top and trimmed below.

Redhead is 28 year old, 5'8" and struggling somewhere between 195 and 210 on any given day.  She is a full time college student on a prestigious scholarship.  She will NOT do anything to jeopardize her school achievement.  Sometimes that means putting the lifestyle on her back burner to do homework.  Sometimes it just means she can't travel anywhere.

If you email us and we don't respond relatively quickly, it's likely that we just don't know what to say. This is all very new to us, and we're not exactly sure what we're looking for. We will not relocate, we will not give up our lives, and we will not surrender control of our daily lives. Please, if you intend to dominate us (especially her) please be literate and a thinking person who pays attention to detail.

We are polyamorous AND swingers and currently share our lives with another couple who also swings outside the relationship.

Thank you for taking the time to survey our profile, we look forward to making many connections with people whether we work with you or not.
4/12/2007 7:46:02 PM
Again, we are working with someone relatively nearby for the time being.  Any initial emails asking us to submit will be promptly deleted without reply.  Thanks for your understanding and respect.
3/31/2007 12:00:09 AM
We are currently working with someone with high hopes that all will go very well.  We're interested in making more friends in this lifestyle, but currently are not seeking anyone to submit to.  Thanks!
2/24/2007 12:00:22 PM
Really now... how hard is it to put more than a "hello" in an email?  If you're contacting us, please have something to say.  We can't reply to a simple hello.  Ask us questions, introduce yourself, SOMETHING.  We may identify as subs, but sub does not equal brainless idiot who will respond to a message with absolutely no thought behind it.  If you can reread your message and find something worth replying to, then please feel free to send it.  If you look at it and can't find anything to respond to - no questions, no thought provoking statements - rethink your desire to contact us, particularly redhead.
1/4/2007 8:48:28 PM
Okay, to be honest, I really SUCK at this whole You/me thing.  I'm sorry if it seems inconsistent or if I come across as being insincere.  I'm not; however, I do appreciate good grammar and after a while it's difficult to handle the case difference.

On another note, we'll be in Vegas for the Adult Entertainment Expo next week!!!  We'll be working (no, we're not stars, we just review toys for a website) so we don't have time to really play at all (except with one friend who's been waiting for us to visit for two years) but we'll be sure to try to take pictures and post a few!
12/1/2006 5:50:06 PM
we're still looking to some extent for someone who will work with us.  As we said earlier, time is really short for us but it would be nice to make some friends.

we don't get out of town.  we don't travel except in rare occasions.  Time and money pretty much make that impossible.  we will be in Vegas this January and intend to go every January for quite some time for the AVN Expo, but that's just about it, and 'work' does come first in regards to the trip.

we have NO clue how the lifestyle would work online, even in theory, but we're interested in hearing others' experiences or suggestions considering the lack of people here in KFalls.
9/21/2006 3:42:02 PM
School starts Monday, and because of that we'll have little time to actually play, much less check this profile.  we are still interested in a little networking here and there, and it would be great to actually be able to scene, but please don't be offended if we don't answer right away, as we're pretty swamped.

Doesn't it suck how real life can get in the way of fun time?  And no, this isn't an opening for someone to say we should be doing this fulltime.
9/15/2006 12:55:20 AM
we are a submissive couple.  Please, for the love of deities, do NOT email us if you are submissive and looking for Dom/mes.  It ain't gonna happen with us.  If you're only looking for some networking or friendship, you'd better say that right out and be literate.
9/12/2006 7:47:35 PM
Ah yes, and it's never a bad thing to mention the fact that we come well equipped with toys.

Another noteworthy mention is that we are interested to some degree in doing tasks with/to each other while being directed to do so, if at any given time no one is available to scene in person.
9/12/2006 7:44:40 PM
Something that needs to be said is that redhead maintains a blog that does primarily deal with sex.  Anonymity is maintained as much as possible, but if One should choose to work with her/us, expect that some or all of her feelings/experiences may be blogged.
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