RamonDario

I am of the opinion that because one is a Dominant it does not preclude him from being a gentleman first. I am looking for a submissive lady who will obey my every order or be ready to receive a good over the knee spanking when she is naughty. That is naughty bad not naughty good! Naughty good means you get chocolate. Never under rate the value of good rich dark chocolate when dealing with ladies.
Your submission does not mean that I expect you to be a doormat. The essence of your submission should be perfect love and perfect trust. You should be able to trust that I will always act in your best interest and protect you from harm. I am sorry but I happen to believe that because a lady submits to someone she is no less a lady. Although, I am Dominant, I have to warn you that I have a very off the wall sense of humor. I am not going to write you one of those frightfully silly e-mails about being "Superdom" I think I would look silly in tights any way. I can see it now black tights with a red "D" on my chest. I cannot take that too seriously. The second thing is that I utterly refuse to do that unbelievably tacky routine that so many alleged "Doms" say "I'm a Dum! You're a sub! On your knees and Yada, Yada, Yada." No names will be mentioned here however we have all met them and valiantly tried to keep from choking on our beverages. Do you all remember "the remaindered cut rate drug store Dom" who couldn't be sold at the slave auction in Philadelphia? All of you who were there will never forget it and you know it!
I love using sensual domination on a submissive. Doing interesting things to her body's pleasure zones that will inflame all her passions and force her body to betray her and make her lose control and want to totally submit to me.
I suppose that I might seem a little strange compared to some of the men who are on this site since I would much prefer to meet you on a social basis for coffee or lunch rather than to jump in to a relationship before we both know that there is a potential chemistry between us.
1] As far as opera, art galleries, classical music, poetry and the ballet, I am the product of a classical education. I enjoy them a great deal. No, I am not gay. Only in America would that question be asked or even be thought of.
2] As far as fishing goes, I use C-4 (plastic explosive) myself. That way I will not be forced tell any fishing stories about the one that got away. I know all fishermen tend to embellish the truth but take pity on us we are on armature liars not lawyers or politician. Have you ever noticed that most politicians are lawyers? Makes you think doesn’t it?
3] As far as gambling, I've gambled with my life too much to enjoy it when it is only for mere money. For me gambling is not adventure. Make me eighteen again and put me in a combat zone with a good Cavalry Regiment again and that is a horse of a different color. Oh there was no pun intended honest. This why I do not gamble for money.
"He either fears his fate too much, Or his desserts are small,
Who dares not put it to the touch,
To win or lose it all."
James Graham, 1st Marques and 5th Earl of Montrose, 1612-1650
(Common Paraphrase: "Who Dares Wins")
4] CAMPING, HIKING and CLIMBING? Are you kidding me? Am I getting paid to do that stuff? Most of my well spent youth was in the Army and I never enjoyed sleeping the woods! We don't need any practice in being uncomfortable it just comes naturally. Only Marines are into the stuff. Now about jumping out of a perfectly good airplane in flight I love that. I think Marines are into pain.
5] As far as Ass Play everything else covered BDSM Interests and skills. Whatever makes my lady go crazy with pleasure is fun for me. I love watching a lady lose control of her body and go into unbearable pleasure indefinitely prolonged.
6] As far a calling me "Sir", I was enlisted, I worked for a living, I can read and write, I know who my parents are and they were married to each other. Call me Bwana! If you know what it means call me “Trisan”. I am not a Sir! Any ne who was ever in been in the service know that one of scariest things you will hear if you are an officer is a sergeant or a chief saying innocently with evil glint in his eyes is “Trust me sir!”
7] In the kitchen, I am to be addressed as "Chef" I do the cooking and shopping for food a hard rule I have “If you are not as good a cook as I am “Stay the hell out of my kitchen!” The first thing I do when I take over a kitchen is put up a metal sign that says “Danger Men Cooking”. I also like doing the shopping especially in those wonderful farmers markets that we have back home.
8] There is something I want you to understand I do collect guns I have not been hunting since I was seventeen I just cannot take the life someone who isn’t threatening those I love or myself besides I think the creatures of the forest sense this and they don’t fear me because of it so we leave each other alone. I don’t want to ruin our relationship so I will NEVER hunt animals. Dogs and wolves are my special friends. I firmly believe that there is "Convert communications center” where all the various types of dogs and wolves share information about humans when they check me out they get a message of “This is a live one, a real sucker for a cold nose and sad eyes. He is always good for treats he carries them in a bag on the left side of his belt.” That’s true by the way.
9) As for antiquing I happen to like collecting those beautifully engraved antique guns. I happen to be quite knowledgeable and a very good you negotiator so I tend to get good bargains. Because of that I try to stay away from certain shops after one of my visits. That also applies to other antiques.
10] Regarding paintball all though paint ball can be fun can I love air soft close quarter battle much better there is a lot more action. After all Ernest Hemingway wrote "Certainly there is no hunting like the hunting of man and those who have hunted armed men long enough and liked it, never really care for anything else thereafter. You will meet them doing various things with resolve, but their interest rarely holds because after the other thing ordinary life is as flat as the taste of wine when the taste buds have been burned off your tongue."
11] On the subject of travel I refuse to fly civilian. If they do not give me a parachute I am not flying on that plane. After seeing that idiot on “The Bachelor” I am going to make sure I never fly with him aside from the fact that he has no class he does not know a lady when he sees one. Then there is getting groped by the perverts that work for Homeland Security. Sorry I really don't swing that way.
12] I am really not fond of wearing the official Dom leather uniform. I swear that at one affair I attended there was so much leather uncertain of the gentleman that I thought that they had slaughtered the cast of a cattle drive for all the lether they wearing. I do love ladies in leather. When the attair is fetish or formal. I prefer formal.
I am looking for a lady who is intelligent, sensual, loyal and submissive. I believed that loyalty is my honor. In this relationship there must be perfect love and perfect trust on both sides. There was an observation made by a collared submissive someone else’s that I would do anything for my submissive. Love does go both ways.
On the subject intellectual discourse just because you are submissive please do not feel you have to defer to me I find intelligent women very very sexy. The mind is the ultimate sexual organ. So please feel free to give me a good argument. It is fun!
I love dogs especially German Sheppard Dogs and American Staffordshire Terriers. Warning if you own a dog I will corrupt it and have it being a happy puppy again.
I am a man from an earlier time who still loves elegance. I actually own my own tuxedo. Yes ladies I can be cleaned up and taken out in your vanilla world without fear of being embarrassed in front of your vanilla friends and professional colleagues. Yes, I do understand that for some ladies humiliation is a turn on. However, I feel that it something which should be done in a more appropriate venue.
He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion.-Anonymous