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Male Submissive, 26, Tampa, Florida
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Male Submissive, 25, New York
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About Rambler25
First things first - please don't contact me if you identify as male. I'm only interested in women, and that's not going to change no matter how much you try to 'convince' me. I hate that I have to say that, but experiences on other similar websites have taught me it needs to be said.
This is quite a long profile, so I hope you don't mind! The important parts are bolded for those with shorter attention spans. :)
I'm a 25yo, queer, polyamorous, kinky, fat activist. All of those things are very important to me, and I hope you're comfortable with them!
I've been writing erotica for several years, and only had a chance to start going to play parties and getting real experience in the last few months. But I love it.
I have a fairly high pain tolerance I love to push. I love how pain makes me feel, especially thuddy pain like floggers and paddles and rulers. Someone using wax on me had me gasping happily in mere seconds, and I'm very interested in more sensation play like that. Most recently I found that canes and me are an excellent combination.
I'm looking for a domme who wants to tie me up and drive me wild with pain, and maybe even pleasure. But honestly the two are so intertwined for me I can't have one without the other. Lately my fantasies are all about long sessions where my whole body is worked over with floggers and other similar things, until every bit of my skin is burning. That sounds like the best massage in the world. ;)
A few things I'm not open for: bloodplay/play piercings, scat/golden showers, verbal humiliation, and lastly if there are guys reading this far who forgot the first part: sex with men.
I feel like I need to talk a little about why verbal humiliation is a no go for me. Feel free to skip this if you like in the interest of brevity but I'd like to say it. In my experience verbal humiliation tends to focus on two things: the sub's body, and the sub's sex drive. With regards to the latter, I don't think there is anything shameful about someone's sex drive. Kinks are to be celebrated, sex to be enjoyed, so really you wouldn't be achieving much if you called me a slut. I would be really proud.
When it comes to the former, though, that's a bit more serious for me. I fight society's messages about my body being disgusting for its fatness every day. It took me years to fight that off and find a way to love myself. Margaret Cho says it best:
"When someone says something negative about my face or body I will always and forever just completely lose my shit, because I have so much hatred in me, a violence that lies just beneath the surface of my delightfully illustrated skin. Being called ugly and fat and disgusting to look at from the time I could barely understand what the words meant has scarred me so deep inside that I have learned to hunt, stalk, claim, own and defend my own loveliness and my image of myself as stunningly gorgeous with a ruthlessness and a defensiveness that I fear for anyone who casually or jokingly questions it, as my anger and rage combined with my intense and fearsome command of words create insults meant to maim, kill and destroy."
If you're still here after all that - thank you! Feel free to message me to ask about anything you like. I'm happy to talk about most things, and would love to chat to you if you're a domme looking for a pain-hungry sub. |
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