I am looking for a man but would consider a woman. I would prefer they be the same age or older. Taller than me. Somewhat experienced (I need a firm hand). Someone who would be interested in talking through boundaries and roles and understanding that this is about more than mindless fucking and brutality (believe me some people need that pointed out to them). I am extremely loyal and committed to the process if you have the time. I am not overly intersted in random one nighters... more a longer term commitment (if I can find that someone). I am unable to commit to a fulltime 24/7 relationship at this time but it can certainly be considered for the future. I would be happy to meet some people for online interaction... but my main goal is to meet someone for a RL commitment.