StartFragment "It is better to be hated for what you are, than to be loved for what you are not" Andre Gide Btw, I LOVE my black ladies... mmm Love the curves, smiles and everything else about you fine women, so let's chat!

Well, I'll be honest, I haven't tried out the internet "sub" search before, so I'm not 100% what to put here. So ladies, if you want to know about what I do besides the lifestyle, shoot me over an email and let's find out a thing or two about one another.

I'm a very open minded guy that is looking for some fun(no not just sex, when I say "fun" I mean I want to meet a young lady that I can go out with and enjoy other activities besides just the lifestyle events) be with open minded women.

I have been in the D&s Listyle for about 9 years. No I'm not a "professional" DOM, but the women I have been with have always been very(and I mean very) submissive in nature, and that is what turns me on the most. I'm into the whips and chains, face smacking, verbal and physical humiliation.... but can change it up depending on the girl's limits. So no, I'm not a complete ass that disrespects limits. I know when to stop, or should i say, I stop when I hear the safe word only. I do understand the difference between a "sub and a "doormat" and to be frank, I can't respect anyone, male or female, that allows someone to treat them like garbage. This lifestyle isn't about treating someone like shit just to get your jollies off, as it seems so many get confused about that.

Looking for a girl that is as open minded as I am. I have been out of the scene for about 2 years now and tried to live in the vanilla world, but needless to say, it wasn't very enjoyable. I find nothing sexier than a woman on her hands and knees wearing a collar and leash with a few red marks on her butt. I am looking for a girl that is somewhat into pain.I like to break out the whips and chains, and see just how far I can go before she cannot posibly take anymore. Looking forward to chatting with a lot of people in the scene to get "caught up" on what I have been missing out on the last few years.