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Hetero Male Switch, 40,  Fall River, Massachusetts
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Hello and thanks for stopping by,

Ive been on this site since it was called Collarme and on the fringes of the BDSM scene for 20ish years now. I have made some truly great friends here and enjoyed the browsing overall. In that time I have learned quite a bit, and thought about my place in this community, though in many ways I still consider myself to be a neophyte. I am looking to make friends and possibly more but its a matter of mutual chemistry.

According to one popular, online test I am a sub though I have switched on occasion it is not my default. Whether that is a matter of experience and confidence or natural inclination I am not certain. I also label myself as straight, though heteroflexible and heteroromantic would be more accurate, and ethically non-monogamous. I do not have a laundry list of specific fetishes I am hoping to indulge, nor do I have one specific type. If I had to boil down what I like about BDSM it would be Power Exchange. Ds is fun, but for me the rules arent the point. Bondage is hot, but its not about the restraints themselves. Outfits help establish a mindset, but its all about the mind. Being a source of pleasure for others is also a major motivator for me. I do have specific fetishes, but I am less interested in indulging them if my partner doesnt share them, and my partners fetishes are always of interest to me. I will happily discuss specifics when relevant. In others I seek intelligence, open mindedness, and creativity. Experience is nice, but not required.

Non-kink Some random about me(s), in no particular order single dad of two with a full time job (so schedule is tricky), bibliophile, NPR junkie, geek, board gamer, recent Minecraft addict, science nerd, history buff, loves intellectual discourse and kinky discourse. I can be found on other sites under the same screen name.

Happy surfing,


Profile Updated June 2019











Last Online:


 Male Switch

 Fall River 


 6' 0"

 185 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Mascdom Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Intellectual Discourse


 Art Galleries


 Renaissance Faires


 Body Worship




 Orgasm Denial

 Pantyhose Fetish


 Sensory Deprivation


 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games




 Amusement Parks

 Coffee Shops




 Anal Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling


 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Mental Bondage


 Obedience Training



 Puzzle Games

 Web Surfing











 Curious About:



 Electrical Play


 Genital Punishment



 Plastic Wrap



 Online RPGs


 Old Guard








 Public Play

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Journal Entries:
2/24/2015 5:08:54 PM
== Results from ==
96% Bondage Receiver
93% Degradation Giver
93% Experimentalist
91% Switch
88% Bondage Giver
84% Degradation Receiver
79% Voyeur
76% Girl/Boy
75% Non-monogamist
71% Daddy/Mommy
70% Dominant
70% Submissive
58% Master/Mistress
55% Sadist
46% Brat
46% Brat Tamer
46% Exhibitionist
46% Pervert
38% Slave
37% Primal (Predator)
37% Primal (Prey)
29% All-Rounder
25% Masochist
9% Vanilla
See my results online at

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