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About QUITAM
"Qui Tam" or "qui tam pro domino rege quam pro se ipso in hac parte sequitur", meaning "[she] who serves in this matter for the king as serves [herself]. I trust the meaning is self evident!
I am very experienced and at that point in the lifestyle where I enjoy mentoring those who desire a thoughtful patient (but firm) Dominate who can guide her in the way she desires.
Please allow me to express that which is fundamental:
1) A submissive is the one giving her gift to her Dominate and that is the starting point.
2) A true Dominate utilizes a continunum of respect and acknowledgment that he is the recipient of the gift and but for her gift there would be no relationship.
3) Communication is a MUST! Communication takes two forms: a) open and free communication when not in her active role as a submissive; and b) defined/controlled communication (with safe words) when in active role as a submissive.
4) After establishing good and effective communication, hard limits need be discussed and defined in such a mannor that there is no ambiguity!
5) Equally important and the antithesis to hard limits is what I will call desired activity. More commonly called "turn ons" - these must be defined and incororated.
6) There are many other issues, but the final one that I will list is: It is important to begin the relationship with the least amount of preconceptions as possible. I have seen so many people tell a new friend that they "hated ketchup" only to find that with their new partner they found that they really liked ketchup!
Let me state this concisely, I am married and she does not participate. This is my reality and I have no intentions of changing it. If this is a hard limit for you, I thank you for your interest and wish you well in your pursuit!
I believe in keeping things imaginative and never boring! The ultimate goal for both parties is for the sub to achieve "sub space" by pleasing her Dominate! |
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