quietstrrm

I am seeking an intimate intelligent connection. I'm at a crossroads in my life and am tired of being alone. I want someone that can feed my soul, and knows how to laugh. I want it all, wisdom, maturity, gentleness, brutality, dominance and love. I have children, they always come first. I would like my lifestyle to be more a part of my everyday life, instead of just weekend play. I am basically monogamous, but would like room for outside play occasionally. Without the feeling of trust, I start to feel confined. I'm honest, I don't tolerate prejudice, I'm intelligent and fun. I enjoy reading and writing and debate and stimulating conversation. I'm a homebody that likes to go out occasionally. I enjoy mental as well as physical play, however this lifestyle isn't a game to me, its simply a part of who i am. Respect that, and please read this carefully before emailing,

I am very submissive and not a switch, however I don't mind if you are.

Due to work and children I can only get out once or twice a month, if you need more time from somone please go find it.

Have references or be known to someone, I'm not willing to be naked and kneeling before someone that I'm not sure is safe.

No poly couples please, thats not my thing.

Have a life, be professional, and enjoy a good conversation as much as you enjoy your play.

I'm not a beginner, I've been around for awhile, please have some experience yourself.

Want to know more....write me.

*****UPDATE*****I feel like an ass because so many people on here sound like they have met or talked to liars and jerks.

I've had the opposite experience. I've talked to some really nice people, met one or 2 and emailed/chatted with a few. All except for one have been open and honest and terrific. Its me that made the mistake in thinking my life was ready to find someone to share it with. I'm busy climbing the corporate ladder, and I wish I had of done it when I was 25 instead of 45 but I didn't and I'm married to my job. When I get a day off, I catch up on sleep and housework. but I stepped out to soon, and while I miss this lifestyle, I'm not ready to let it back in yet, when I do it emcompasses me, and I still have kids to take care of. I'm going to leave the profile and check it occasionally, it will happen when its meant to be.

Take Care