QuietLilFem

Good Evening Adorable Pups;

Your patience will need to be a bit more diligent than you would prefer in exchanging emails for a little while.  I find myself just home after 45 days in two hospitals and rehab; this poor little fragile body is still finding its way back to working the way it’s supposed to; making everything, including typing, quite the challenge. 

Hoping to be well enough when spring arrives to be up to some sightseeing here in the area, there are some incredibly beautiful old buildings in town.  It would be delightful to find someone to share such little adventures with. 

Get back to your evening, stay warm and dry. 

Holiday Hiatus:

How can I possibly leave this delightful entertainment?  Hopefully this is only a temporary decision, as I strategize the approaching season, this plate run-neth over and covers the table.  Between Thanksgiving, Christmas decorating and shopping, Studying, Final Exams, a few ‘winterizing’ chores, hopes of getting one more room painted over the break, preparing to begin another semester, and the anniversary of loosing my epic love. . . . . . it occurs to me that my best strategy involves pushing anything off the plate that can possibly be removed without hindering my bigger plans. . . . as I have found a few genuinely interesting conversations; some delightfully sweet men; so far, the benefit I find does not always justify the investment this requires.  I will stay with this as long as I can to finish conversations that have already been initiated, (or transfer one or two over to personal email contact); but in the attempt to make a clear differentiation, any conversation initiated after November 15 may not be seen and/or responded to until some time in January 2014.

I would like to send a Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Seasons Greetings, and Happy New Year to all that are reading this journal.  Enjoy, Celebrate (Safely), and Reflect on the Best Memories, what makes them the ‘Best’?  Safest of journey’s for all that travel over the holidays, and Safe returns Home. 

Good Afternoon Adorable and Enticing Men,

As I am taking a short dinner break, glancing at the inbox, I see I have been neglecting this account, (ooops).  The demands of the move and getting settled sufficiently enough to begin classes has consumed most of my energies for far too long, and now a full course load at college will continue to consume much of my focus.  Please don't become too discouraged; I have every confidence as I find my new rhythm in this new life, I will certainly find time to get back to these delightful conversations, [sadly ignoring the ones that haven't bothered to do their own share of the work, as in filling out their own profile to share some of themselves, or bothering to let me see that you actually do have manners in your notes to me].

When I do get to Your email, hopefully it will be something worth reading instead of some typical 'bar' line.  [In case you don't see the hint here - I won't waste my time answering those sort of messages.]

Hope everyone is getting ready for a fantastic and safe holiday weekend.

Thankfully - I have not been sick in quite some time - hip hip hurray!!!!

My aspirations to be moved before the end of May was over with fell short, yet keys to my new place should be in my hands one week from today!!!!!  The view is delightful!!  So much involved in moving, all this transition without a Pet in my life to assist in stress management is quite the adjustment, such a shame I haven't found that suitable Pet yet. 

Perhaps soon I'll get back to a better routine and get caught up on the emails - generally, when I read an email, if I'm going to respond it will be within 24 hours of reading it.  If I don't respond, odds are incredibly strong that you missed a good hint in my profile or in this journal that might have gotten you a response.  Being yourself is good, but if you don't have any manners at all, and act like a pig, you won't derail my attention from better mannered Pups (Potential Pets).

I hope this finds all of you doing wonderfully well this beautiful warm season. 

Happy Shopping

Oh My Goodness,

How could I be so long from this entertainment? 

Between that being sick last month, and traveling this month, still not sure when I'll be going back home to pack up and get myself moved over here to these amazing and mezmerizing mountains - hopefully I'll be moved before May is over with.

I feel it only polite to apologize for getting so far behind on my emails, and will hopefully have decent internet access over the next few days to get caught up. . . .

Patience and persistance can pay off. . . . most of the time. . . .  giggles

Thank you for your understanding

Good Evening All;

This being sick thing sort of sucks - it's got me taking more time to rest than I'm accustomed to, and less time 'socializing'. . .

Hopefully I'll be back up to socializing within a week or so? 

Is everybody ready for Spring?  It's just around the corner. . . . . 

Best Wishes

You Guys are Wonderful;

I'll be doing some traveling the next few weeks, hopefully I'll continue to have access to the internet from hotel to hotel. . . . and not become too far behind. . . .

Happy Fall Colors!!!!

Later

Gentlemen, Adorable Pups, Sweet and Tender Souls;

I find myself again struggling, falling further behind on the emails than the normal two or three days. Given the asserted dynamics expected between a dominate and a subordinate soul, it seems inappropriate to apologize for not being able to dedicate sufficient time to maintain the 'explorative' nature of these emails; the further recognition that this note will fall on mostly deaf eyes, since the genuine interest of a friend was not readily found after my last post a couple months ago when I was working through a genuinally difficult time; these observations make it doubly difficult muster an apology. These words are not intended to offend, optimistically, they might perhaps encourage the civility that all humans expect to find in friendly sort of acquaintances in their lives. . . . .

Perhaps I have not yet shared this in my profile, I am a widow, (still from time to time struggling with the fall out of such a tragedy) finding it painful and frustrating to repeatedly attempt to be open, fair, and optimistic with each possible connection, and becoming more and more reluctant to repeatedly share these deep intimate details about who I am with complete strangers that are so focused on the 'SEX' of everything. . . . then again, that does give me the quick observation of your lack of balanced intentions in any possible connection? A big plus for me to help me stop wasting my time.

The balance and depth of a well rounded relationship is more likely to substancially amplify the intensity of any and all sexual activity between such emotionally connected adults than any artificially designed recreational sexual activities can possibly create. While this is only my opinion and belief; it is the way that I live and believe. . . if you do not believe similarly, then we will not be able to make any sort of connection. . . . eventually the truth will become evident, please respect this concept as part of my life plan, and leave me alone if it is not part of your life plan.

If your intentions are genuinally sincere, I appreciate your notes, and will get to them, as I am up to it. Your patience could be a gift to both of us?

Encouraging everyone to begin their Christmas Shopping? (laughter)

Gentlemen, Adorable Pups, Sweet and Tender Souls;

Realizing that my returning emails stays a bit behind, (testing your patience), figured I would share a little tidbit for this week. . . . it's going to be a difficult week and weekend, while I may bounce in and out of here a bit,  I may not be up to answering emails so much. . . . hopefully I'll be getting back to catching up by Tuesday or Wednesday next week. . . .

Enjoy the weather, and stay out of trouble. . . .

The Male Body, when taken care of, is one of the most beautiful works of art that can exist, a playground of endless places and activities to enjoy. . . . . . .

Irony: some can grasp the need for graduated acceleration when a machine has a 'restrictor plate' installed; yet cannot grasp the need for graduated acceleration in dealing with a Human being? 

I don't remember reading anywhere that being a FemDomme was an invitation for anyone to expect any sort of instant gratification, . . . that is another one of those things that is completely contradictory to the entire concept of FemDomme, isn't it?  So many apparently adorable men seem to get soooo wrapped up in their desires to be 'taken' that they skip many steps required to accomplish such a goal; in skipping those steps, they seem to continually be sitting on the side lines?  (awawaw, little pout, poor pups) If you profess to be a 'sub' of any sort, then is it not appropriate that you subordinate your mind to allowing the FemDomme to set the pace in how and how fast things accelerate? 

Oh, I can just imagine so many men that read these thoughts are rolling their eyes and mumbling such interesting little comments, (giggles), that would make you most likely one of those men that is searching for a 'weekend romp' sort of situation, perfectly fair enough for you to be looking for; clearly, you won't be finding it with me, so enjoy your shopping in the next profile; but those adorable men that find more spice in the bigger picture of an actual on going relationship of some sort, if your search has been frustrating and difficult, perhaps with a few new thoughts going on in your mind, new ideas in how to more calmly and patiently approach your endeavor, you might actually find more satisfying results? 

Just a few of my wandering thoughts to ponder. . . . .

The right pup is a terrible thing to neglect. . . . . . giggles

I find myself in a quandry doing this thing that I find so offensive. 

It is my firm belief that profiles should be written to those that we actually want to communicate with, and avoid wasting such valuable space saying anything to those that we have no interest in communicating with; however, I find far more of my time being monopolized answering emails that have not earned my time and energy. 

Therefore, I will share the comments that I have shared in too many individual emails:

To those interesting and entertaining Sub/Slaves from this and other countries sending copy and pasted generic emails: If you cannot be bothered to write an email that speaks directly and specifically to me in an individual and personal manner, then I cannot be bothered to answer your email.

To those poor neglected married men that are searching for their little thrill and excitement to substitute for their partners neglect of them: What makes you think that you have so much to offer that I would be willing to allow anyone to put me so far down on their priority list?  If I'm not on the top of your priority list, then how can you possibly serve me to MY desires?  Your plan has contradictory issues, issues that I will not play with.  In addition to that huge problem, If she's neglecting you, then clearly you haven't figured out in all these years of marriage how to satisfy her, what makes you think you can figure out how to satisfy me in less time?    Here's my suggestion to you, either hire a pro to get your horny rocks off, or man up and go grovel at your wife's feet and beg her to treat you as you've so sadly deserve, admit that you've neglected HER NEEDS for too many years and that you owe her at least a year of servitude before you can even hope that she might give you five minutes of attention.  If your claims of being a submissive or a slave are genuine, then you will try this, she does not have to crack a whip to rule you. 

Admitedly, this scenerio does not apply to all married men; however, my rules are the very same for all married men. 

To those poor neglected men that just haven't figured out how to satisfy a woman and think that claiming to be a submissive or a slave will accomplish your goals:  Man up and pay for some classes.  I'm not giving classes, so don't apply here.

I am not an amusement park ride at your disposal, that is completely contradictory to the nature of my power.  If you approach me as if I am, I will not be answering your email.

Best Wishes to all of you in your endeavors.

Mistress

Such a vast buffet of activities exist in this enticing world! 

While I appreciate and encourage each to seek out their own desires;

My personal desires and cravings find so much more satisfaction in the more subtle nuances of timing and emotions being able to fully evolve and be expressed in each touch, breath, purposeful hesitation, and reactive impulse. . . . . those moments that we can linger, allowing the body to react all on it's own instead of trying to make it react in any particular way.  The delight that comes as your hungry flesh squirms as it patiently awaits my touch, and the thrill as your fingers find those little places on my body that hunger for your spoiling attention. 

I look forward to finding that amazingly generous man with so much strength and comfort in all that he is makes him able to share himself so openly to become the spoiling Pet that can satisfy me, psychologically as well as physically.  I have absolutely No interest in a so called Slave or Submissive man; I have much interest in the Man that finds me interesting enough to actually have conversations with me, caring enough to actually WANT to learn who I am, inside and out; with the confidence to know that when I am comfortable in his presence, the intensity that we will share behind closed doors will exceed his imagination, and satisfy desires he did not know he had. 

(giggles)  No, this is not an expectation or a plan for a long term relationship; it is what is required to enjoy some time together. . .  If it is so great and healthy that it continues into more, then we can celebrate that when it happens.