Quartzite

I liked the pictures - they were gentle and serene.

My interpretation of D/s is an intensely personal one; it’s not for thrill seeking voyeurs, nor is it for those who like to attribute it to a religion. To me it’s very simple – it’s when a woman privately surrenders her body, and to varying degrees her mind, to a man who she accepts as her Master.

Complete surrender as a slave has to be a rare occurrence, and I have to doubt the sincerity of many of those here who claim they wish to relinquish total control. To those of you are genuine slaves I apologise.

Pain is an important aspect to me and, as I take pleasure in its administration, means that by definition I am a sadist. However, there are degrees of the intensity of sadism and these would be discussed in any initial negotiations. One thing is certain and that is I don’t believe in “token pain”, such as a gentle slapping. Let’s not beat about the bush (no pun intended!), pain hurts and you will know whether or not this is what you need. There is however a subtle difference between the words ‘hurt’ and ‘harm’ which I trust that you will appreciate.

What I seek?

As I am divorced and live alone I have the flexibility of having choice. I would not wish to rush into a 24/7 relationship, and to be honest have to question just how D/s can occur as a continuous process. I favour a relationship based on visits, not necessarily just overnight, whereby the intensity of a submissive’s service can be maintained.

I'm realistic enough to accept that few younger women are likely to want to serve a mature dominant, regardless of his experience and so you are unlikely to be under 45 years old. However, it’s your attitude that is important and so there are therefore no fixed parameters.

I expect a submissive to be honest, loyal and willing to try new things. Above all she should be totally committed.

The provision of a photograph seems to be a prerequisite of many here. I have no problem with this and will provide one, and more, once a realistic dialogue has been established. I have no wish at this stage to advertise a very personal aspect of my life to friends and family who may view CM, albeit out of curiosity.

It would be good if you were to have Skype or other internet voice platforms which is a much more satisfactory way of communicating than typing.

By now I hope you have gained an initial impression of who I am and look forward to hearing from you.


Quartzite