I am a SWM, 40, tall, attractive, and athletic and a strict Dom. Additionally I am professionally employed and financially as well as emotionally secure.

What really determines what I enjoy, is who I am with. I differ from many Dom's or want-to-be's in that I truly believe that for a Dom/sub relationship to work, we "both" must get from the relationship, what we need/want. As for what/who I am looking for, that's very hard to put into words. On the surface I am looking for someone attractive, honest, good sense of humor and who has recognized (or wants to explore) her submissive side. One who I could enjoy romantic/quiet times too. It's certainly more of a feeling I'll get from the right sub... sort of "I'll know it when I see it".

Sounds like I'm looking for a lot. Perhaps that's why I haven't found her yet. If this might be you, I look forward to hearing from you.