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Male Submissive, 33, Monterrey
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About PutASpellOnYou
Hypnosis has been a lifetime fascination for me. That moment when you can see or hear that a girl is letting go completely, and she knows shes going, and knows you know, is simply delicious... A big appeal of hypnosis for me is control, so thats how I like to express domination. Its seduction, control and surrender all at once. I like to tease... just to remind you who is boss... I like girls who are bright... witty... curious... occasionally slutty... ined... sensual... obedient... People often ask me, what will you do with me once Im under? Which is hard to answer... because getting you under is half the fun... and because what we find out about how you behave in trance, will change what I want to do. If I find you have a feeling for bondage, I can tie you up with your own mind if you like to serve, I can make that feeling more intense and rewarding for a girl who liked nude sunbathing, I made her feel that I was watching her, and she wanted to undress, and feel the warmth of my gaze on her body like the rays of the sun... What might I find in your mind?
Ive experienced hypnosis myself a few times, for play and therapy. I did know a couple of switches at one time who were always threatening to drop me, but somehow when playtime came around, they would just curl up in my lap, and purr, and wait to be told a story...
Ive not found anyone locally with a similar interest, but have been pleased to discover you can play with trance at a distance by phone or Skype. Intrigued? Drop me a line.
P.S. I was 50 in 2001, and if you cant do the sums, were probably not really suited...
P.P.S. Happy to offer face pics or to Skype, but Im shy in public because of my job |
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"Make me dumb." "Surely that would be gilding the lily?" |
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Browsing hypno-curious profiles, I read: "To put me under just type "Sleep and Obey" and say what the changes are in detail." Form an orderly queue, folks. |
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"They always fail, and they're always astonished... even the ones who say they have precognition." -- Richard Wiseman on testing claimed parapsychological abilities. |
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Still having conversations online like:
"hey can we talk about erotic hypnosis"
"sure, what's your experience of hypnosis so far, or what do you know about it?"
"I want an experience where I have orgasms, amirite?"
"No problem, what's your experience of hypnosis so far, or what do you know about it?"
"I would come to you, is that cool with you?"
"I can accommodate, but what's your experience of hypnosis so far, or what do you know about it?"
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This seems a wonderful period to be a bum man, never seen so many on display in skin-tight outfits... but I'm a mind man. A curious glance, a wry smile, a gaze lost in a dream, are as exciting to me as any of these jiggling temptations. |
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Here with a Loaf of Bread beneath the Bough, A Flask of Wine, a Pocket-Watch--and Thou Beside me trancing in the Wilderness-- And Wilderness is Paradise enow. |
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I think if you're ill at the weekend you should be allowed to take at least the Monday off. |
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No. The spirit of tolerance, you fool. |
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For 'curious about hypnosis', read 'often not curious enough to talk about trying it'. |
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The look of trance is in your eyes A look your mind can't disguise The look of trance, it's saying so much more Than just words could ever say And what my heart has heard Well, it takes my breath away
I can hardly wait to hold you Feel my power 'round you How long have I waited Waited just to hold you Now that I have found you
You've got the look The look of trance, it's on your face A look that time can't erase Be mine tonight |
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All I want for Christmas is... a girl who likes to listen to stories.
I know a few:
There's one that starts with a girl sitting on a bench in a wood, tired after a long walk, where the sunshine twinkles through gaps in the branches, and she lets her muscles relax, and her eyes relax, and her mind relax, all the way down...
There's one about a beautiful princess who one day meets a wizard with deep hazel eyes, who looks deep into his eyes, and gets lost, completely...
There's even one about what happened to a girl who got online to listen to a story, and found she closed her eyes, and was curious to find she couldn't open them again, and had such wonderful dreams...
But may be the best stories are created at the time, between us, from what you might have told me, what I'm thinking about that day, and what might be on your mind. Some people just jump into a hypnosis induction ("imagine you are laying relaxing in the sunshine on a beach") without thinking (maybe when you are on a beach, you don't find it relaxing at all- sunburn, jellyfish, other people's music...). If we chat, maybe you will tell me, or hint to me, about some of the ways you like to relax, and some of the things you daydream about, and I can weave a spell, just for you.
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Replied to today's email: "I hope your strategy of sending small numbers of words to men thousands of miles away bears fruit." |
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Back to work, boo... Returned to find 4978 emails demanding attention. I leant my elbow on the delete key and had a little doze, when I woke up they were all gone. |
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Wore new smart cotton shirt with silk knot cufflinks for Skype chat today:
"Ah, you're already in your pyjamas, I see"
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Another chat with someone who doesn't seem to have enough focus to be hypnotisable... I guess failing to capture someone's attention for long enough to have a conversation is something of a failure in a hypnotist. |
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First times are always special; there's an anticipation and an anxiety that can make things hesitant but these features can lend the session an intensity that has an unrepeatable quality.
For some reason I often end up playing with switches / hypnotists / both, which is always fun but I also know I'm not going to be allowed to get away with any sloppy technique... Yet I tend to think that the first time with a new playmate is always going to be a bit sloppy, I'll be relying for some of the time on stock phrases and suggestions rather than a repertoire that we've talked/worked out together.
So we chatted, which was lovely... I noticed we were mirroring our postures pretty soon; in fact there were pauses when we were just grinning at each other like fools, just pleased to have found the time to be together.
I like to slide into hypnosis from conversation, but today she said, "let's play", so we did...
All hypnosis is self-hypnosis, they say (not true of course), but she was so ready to respond, and experienced anough in going under, she just needed a few nudges in the right direction. She almost seemed to have trouble keeping her eyes open while we were chatting. Very warm and responsive; a dream of a playtime. And I never forget what a privilege it is to be allowed to play with someone's mind in this way; nor the level of trust implied.
I'll know more for next time; but won't ever forget this time. |
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1. An opportunity
'Are you up for some hypnosis?'. I'm always up for some hypnosis, erotic or otherwise, but this friend has had more than usually tough time of it as late, so I've not been plotting to trance her, I've been more concerned about saying what I can to support her.
But when she asked, I became instantly hard...
2. A feel
So, we switched from text to voice, and said hello... I usually ask a bunch of daft questions to start with, like, can you hear me OK, are you lying down, how much time do we have, what's the time there...
Some I need to know, some I like to know, but really the purpose is to change the balance, establish a lead, get her in the way of waiting for my prompts before saying or doing anything... and also to get a feel for her mood, which is hard to assess in text.
She sounded quick and bright and bouncy, which is a lot of what I like about her, but maybe a bit too quick to listen in the way I want her to listen, or to relax in the way I want her to relax, or maybe the way she needs to relax...
3. An induction
So I decided to do something very slow, and incremental, and that involved complying with a sequence of instructions, rather than enjoying a succession of images or ideas in imagination, or having a long conversation and weaving a spell out of what we talk about. Lots of open your eyes, close your eyes, take a breath, let it out, and building the relaxation in and around that, and building the control in the same way, until she couldn't open her eyes any more, and was ready to go deeper.
4. Deepening
I'm fond of using the arm lift as one of the steps; again, sometimes I make it something silly or a fantasy or silly, but today just played it straight and easy to understand. We discovered which of her hands and arms felt lightest, and worked on that feeling, letting it build, not making it happen, just letting it happen...
5. A distraction
You won't need reminding that tingling can happen, a feeling that can appear in trance or after. She found she was less able to concentrate on her hand, because she was feeling tingly... somewhere special. Maybe she had tuned in to my energy, or her body was just getting impatient with all the hands and eyes and breathing...
Anyhow, it was interesting, and a little amusing, and was good to hear about, so thank you, and it reminded me how often other people talk about feeling tingling as they go deeper and deeper, and is something you can enjoy or ignore as your hand gets lighter, as you open your mind even more to my voice...
6. A success
If a suggestions isn't complied with, what do you do? You can just stop, or try harder, or make a fight of it... I decided to stop with the very direct suggestions, and switched to the very familiar suggestion of imagining a balloon full of helium tied to her wrist, and... success. But also, compliance.
7. A progression
So we went back to the tingling feeling, and spent some time playing with that... Seeing if it was still there, or growing, or if it might build, or even if it might not just grow, but even double, and double when I used a special spell... And it turned out that it did all of those things, and she was able to enjoy wonderful waves of sexual energy, flowing through her, from the top of her head to the tips of her toes, again and again... Very sexy. (I think she believes the spell is when I count to three, which is true in a way, but there is another word which I always use when making a direct suggestion, and I believe she was responding to that, listening to the timing. Might discuss later. Might keep it up my sleeve.)
8. And then
Well, it turns out that we didn't have as much time together as we thought, but she did say some interesting things about how different she felt afterwards. There's a bit of patter I like to use, and did a couple of times, about your mind and body cooperating so well, and producing the feeling or the energy that are right for you right now... and maybe that was having other effects, seen at other times.
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