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About pusiwhpd
Looking ofr a femdon FLR type relationship.
Musician and therapist , sane mature, my work keeps me firmly in the north london area (camden).
A politically and spiritually (not religious!) aware, leftish, with both intuitive and laser sharp critical thinking skills who highly skilled in supporting others to integrate the darker aspects of self rather than to attempt to banish them.
I identify here as cuck. I know this raises alarms with some women who enjoy control, I have had successful relationship s with women who have had no desire to sleep with anyone else. It is obviously not my place to decide for them and the last thing I'd want to do is manipulate a woman into doing so! and I have done a lot of work on my self to divest the layers of bullshit that can surround all this. But i do consider it important that they accept that part of the dynamic of an authentic relationship with me is that i have surrendered any say in it, it is one of the areas where I have surrendered control.
I do have some capacity to switch, particularly in the more vanilla contexts where have been traditionally sexually satisfying and I am a trained tantric teacher with many years experience but my triggers are those of a sub so that would in the dynamics of a relationship where it fulfils my partners needs. On the other hand I am very capable, spiritually and in the areas of self transformation. I know my shit and you had better believe it, becuase that will come into play in the dynamic.
Ideally I would love to meet a partner with some capacity for dominance who desires to explore it and enjoys manipulating me sexually and utilising denial tease, discipline, humiliation etc to get what they want. My restrictions serve to enhance and support your freedoms. If this sounds too tame, realise it is because i am actually very flexible to my partners needs, I could go 24//7 (well, in the home) if the relationship was strong enough. I'm not a pain slut. my tolerance is quite low, and i don't get off on it for its own sake. But the psychological aspect of submission to punishment and restriction is powerful for me and it isn't to say that your sadism is not arousing nor the willingness to endure your salacious needs not a worthy challenge. Context is everything and i welcome all aspects of a partner.
I am pretty non scene these days and binned my cross dressing (that, or transvestitism was about all the options to call it back then) gear some years back. I never did clubbing, vanilla or scene, as a punter (I was tantric masseur at Club Pedestal in its early days, for example ) . , but my perance skills as musician are of an unusual variety, being an expert in singing in vocal improvisation, skilled in african and indian classical musics as well as more western music and instruments. lend themselves effortlessly to cabarete, if any one wants support for that, it would probably get me back into it.
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1. meeting
I had just opened a one bedroom squat in my 20's, in a run down council block, with no friends nearby. She was on the stairwell, smiled at me.
We talked, invited me for coffee and we got on alright chatting.
She was Angie, thin, nice pixy face, dark short hair. not girly, 20's black leggings and sneakers (now socks), but probably not actually sporty. we talked about her depression,(I was had just started to pull myself out of it with meditation and she was very interested in that) how squalid the area is the crack dealer (she said) in the flat below who s door got crowbarred open (I said) while i was coming back from the shops. She mentioned a guy Eddy was around who she had sex with last night..but wasn't a boyfriend....I liked her smile.
At some point she I noticed she was now holding her pussy with her thumb on or near where her clitoris would be and the tip of her middle finger right down on the vagina entrance. I stopped. It was quite a pronounced pose, sitting upright with the back of her wrist jutting out and her am forward, so hardly unnoticeable. Her thighs spread. Not moving, but pressing.
I said the most obvious "Your holding you pussy". she smiled slightly nervously, nodded and asked " Do you like me?" I stuttered that she was beautiful
I was already on the floor so went forward on my hands and knees with my face about six inches away, she placed her other hand on my forehead, stopping me coming any closer, fingers in my hair, and began moving her fingers a just a little a tilting her pelvis with it. her mouth open to breath more, and she relaxed fingering herself more through the leggings, holding me way from her still on my hands and knees. Her smell was turning me on, and the sight of moisture coming through where her fingers rubbed. She shifted and placed her feet on my hands, as she started to lose control of her breathing more and make some sounds, and a stronger fist of my hair.
Her mobile went. We stopped and she answered. it was Eddy, he was outside and coming up.
cont....
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1. Meeting. continued....
When she let him in I was sat back still on the floor, and he sat in the chair, the bed was a low futon and she sat there as the only other piece of furniture, so we were in a triangle. He was older than us, and had a laddish attitude about him, not great looker. Bit of opening banter...he leered at her a bit and asked how she was.
She looked at him and at me, sighed and stood up and went to him and arched her body into his shoulder where he sat, and said "we have just been talking. Simon said i was beautiful" "Did he?" looking at me his hand draped around her arse. "he did", she said in a kind of "so there!" manner her two hands pushing off against him a little, but not enough to take her pelvis off of contact with him for more than a second. He laughed and said "I've had worse i suppose" and she bent down and kissed him, lifting a leg over his and sliding her front down his front till she straddled his lap . "hey Robin" she said looking back " thanks for the chat, maybe I'll see you tomorrow?"
"Uh, yeah sure" i said and let myself out.
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