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I have pics and in a month or so once I can get a new laptop with a cam that actually works I'll be more than willing to prove myself on cam :) This isn't the first time I've been on this site, but this is all still something I'm very new to. Don't be offended if your message gets deleted. I'm pretty picky now (simply due to bad experiences) and almost every message I'm sent will be deleted. I'd rather respond and just let you know I'm not interested, but I don't like the attack that follows sending those messages. Sorry bout that.
1/9/2014 7:54:48 AM

Thought I'd list out some of the things I'm looking/not looking for

 

- Non-smoker

- d&d free

- Taller than me (preferably by at least 5 in)

- Blue eyes

- No kids and preferably never been married

- Not interested in a poly household

- Wants (2-3) kids someday

- Is not sadistic

- Would be willing to get married someday

- Preferably has a college education, but not required so long as he can hold a job

- Is fine with an affectionate girl :)

- Patient enough to teach/train

- Willing to discipline when necessary

- Preferably is fine with being called a combination of Sir, Master, and Daddy

- Lives in either the US or Canada

 

And to anyone who thinks that hooking up after a couple months (or less) of talking on this site is a good idea, feel free to refrain from messaging me.

1/7/2014 2:57:53 PM

Here's a list of things I bring to the table.. just in case anyone decides they want to know why they should want me.

 

I have a job. Technically part time, but it seems like most weeks I'm scheduled a good 37-39 hours. So it often feels like full time. I enjoy it though and my managers have told me that my motivation and hard work definitely make me stand out.

 

I don't have any addictions. I don't smoke at all or drink or do drugs.

 

I'm still a virgin. I know that some guys don't like that, but I personally think of it as a positive thing and I know there are guys that would agree.

 

I graduated high school (a year and a half ago) and plan on being in college this coming fall semester. I'll be studying psychology with the intentions of becoming a clinical psychologist.

 

I'm very detail oriented and can be very much of a perfectionist... the downside of this can be that I have a significant amount of difficulty following orders that aren't specific enough for me. But when I do something I tend to get it right.

 

I'm motivated and eager to improve and develop myself. 

 

I enjoy cooking. Unfortunately, I don't get to cook or bake anywhere near as much as I'd like to right now. I do hope though that sometime I'll be cooking someone dinner every night :)

 

I like to be healthy. I work out 3 times a week right now. Once it gets warm out I plan to start running again.

 

I'm honest and very unlikely to be deceitful no matter what the cost is. 

 

Despite being a perfectionist in some areas, I am pretty laid back. I can be flexible and I'm not the type that needs to constantly be busy. 

 

I'm loyal. Me cheating would never have to be a concern. My parents have been together for over 20 years and have always told me and my siblings that they'll never divorce, so I've had that example set for me. 

 

I don't have a problem standing up for myself. I know what I deserve and I'm not going to settle for less. On the one hand, this is bad news for a lot of guys who just want to take advantage of any girl they can get their hands on. On the other hand though, knowing what I deserve means not only requiring others to treat me the way I deserve, but it also means that I treat myself with respect. That's not something I used to do a whole lot of, but as I've gotten older I've started understanding the importance of it. 

 

I might add to this later if I think of anything else.

 
1/5/2014 9:17:14 PM

Please no men over 33 for now. I have my reasons for this and will immediate delete messages questioning or criticizing this decision...