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SubbieScarlette

Loves subs, Dommes, and Switches. Hates the decidedly helpless

I started as a sub, but now I'm exploring my Dominant side. Some people have criticised that my profile makes me look like I'm looking for sex. This is true to a point. I respect limits, and encourage much talk and negotiation before play. Conscentuality is at the forefront, I don't go where I'm not welcome. If you make me feel desired and wanted, I'll do everything in my power to please you.

As a Dom, I've been with a few subs for a couple year. One was collared to me, and we were open. But jealously finally had us go our seperate ways. I'll miss her.

As a sub, i occasionally play with FemDomes on occasion, as our schedules permit.

I'm looking for FemDommes who want to throw a man around, beat the stuffing out of me, tie me up and maybe some anal play, please. I do love getting fucked in the ass.

I'm also looking for subs, I want to fullfill fantasies. To find that threshold of between pain and pleasure is where the bliss of subspace lies. Then push until you scream an unbridled wail of staisfaction and agnony.

Outside the Scene, I
go to goth clubs,
the SCA
an RHPS cast memeber
and work as a Professional Tarot Card reader. (Do NOT ask for a free reading! HARD LIMIT).

I've transferred a few of my private journal entries into my journal here, enjoy.

As it was a great tool for me as a submissive to write out fantasies, I am writing tonight a Dominant fantasy......



I lead her by the hand into the room. I ask lil' one how she feels. she timidly says "ok". I lightly kiss her lips. Brush her hips with my hands, as I wrap my arms around her, pulling her to me. "All is well" I whisper. I massage her back. lil' one leans against me, falling into me. I take off her top and bra, and pull her in close. The warmth engulfs both of us. I smooth her body with my hands, arms and chest. I feel her heart beat through her skin.  

A blindfold covers her eyes, to shelter her further from the outer world distractions. I hold her close again, rocking the world away. I kiss her neck, listening to her breath. "How do you feel?" I ask.
"Good" she says. 
"And" 
"um....." 
"And" I ask with a slightly sterner tone.
"um....." 
As I roughly, cup a breast in one hand. I command "You will tell me anything and everything, especially when I ask."I punctuate that command, by smaking my other hand on her breast, with a strike that makes her flinch. "Do you understand?"
"Yes" she whimpers.
"Good" as I kiss the red hand mark. I hold her close to me massaging her body with my own. I knead the tensions until she deeply breathes.

I pull away and grab some rope. I bind her wrists in front of her, wrapping the rope around her back, and tie it tightly around her waist. I then pull her skirt and panties down, removing them.

My fingers trace her legs, her calves, her inner thighs. My palms round to her hips. Pull her to me and engulf her body again. Rubbing, and kissing her.

"How do you feel?" 
"Um.." 
Her breast feels the grasp of my hand again.
"Good" she stammers. 
"And"  
"....hot"  
"Excellent!" My lips find a nipple. she gasps as I suck and nibble her sweetness.
Her body feels me clench her breasts. I start lightly spanking her breasts. she moans as I grab and beat her chest with increasing intensity and frequency.

lil' one arches towards me, asking with her body for more. she sways. I catch her before she falls and place her sitting on the bed.

"A little excited, aren't we" I devilishly giggle.
"Yes" she pants.

My hands caress her body, journeying to a most sensitive zone. My fingers tickle between her legs. She moans at the thought.

"How do you feel?" 
"Good" 
"And" 
"Hot" 
"And" 
she moans in frustration. My hand clenches coldly.
"And" 
"Um....."  
A light smack, lands on her pussy. Another one, and another. I rhythmic barrage of blows. not hard but hard enough to make her open her mouth. Deep moans escape her lips. She does not know what to say, as it's unclear to her what's more. The rush of bliss mixed in with the pain is too confusing. She's stunned by her want for more and want to stop.

The pussy spanking continues. The sound of the hand hitting gets louder and wetter as she realises how crazy this is making her. She wants to laugh as she does not believe that her pussy could be pummeled so hard, and that she is going to be so sore in the morning. Her moans now sound more like growls and she loves it. Held right at the edge of climax.

Her back feels the bed. The beating has now spread over her thighs, back to her nipples down her sides. Being flipped on her side so that her ass won't be left out. She spins in pain and throbs in pleasure. She's lost. Time is lost.

Sweat. Breath billowing out of her chest. Heat rises from her body. lil' one feels His body engulf her once more.
 
"How do you feel?" I say. 
"Great" she giggles. 
We laugh.  

Private Journal entry,Nov. 27th, 2005  "It's good to be the Dom.. "



I knew my kat was coming over to play right after work. In a way I was kind of dreading it as my belief is that men do about 90% of the work in bed. Yes, I know I'll never get a sore throat from performin' oral on a woman. But unless it's a blowjob, cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, the woman's doing little for sex. (Prove me wrong, and talk is cheap.)

And as a Dom it's even more so, as often the subbie's too tied up to be active. After 9 hours at RedEnvelope, and too little sleep, I was feelin' Dirty, tired, and sore (Not in a goodway).

The,it struck me. kat wants to be my slave, and likes to be ordered around.So, I had her wash me in the shower, give me a massage, blow me, then I pulled her over my lap, spanked her ass red, and fucked her.

The relatively naughty part is that I stopped two of her orgasms. She cried out in protest each time. I know, I'm mean. I love it when they cum so hard that all they can do is quiver for 5 minutes, struggling to catch their breath.

kat may have an ass as hard as a brick wall, but I know her limits now. Luckily her limit is just as high as mine. I'm hitting her as hard as I'm able(much harder than I hit anyone at Rocky. Even you Amy). My Dom side is truly getting out to play.

Many moons ago, at a Rick's Rap, the conversation swung to "Dom/mes limits" and what is called "the beast". "The Beast" is when one gets wild during a session, there's a temptation to loose control and swing wilder and harder. If one loses control, you can hurt the subbie (physically and emotionally), and not hear the safe words as you're not listening.

I've been dealing with the beastie pushing myself to play with kat. By playing with me, she's showing me that I can go farther.

I like it......... >:)

Old entry from my private journal:Oct. 19th, 2004 Massage and a Beating


So, I head over to her house. Her roomates let me in and say that she's on the phone. Minute's later she comes out, gives me a hug, and we head back to a bedroom. She strips down and lies down on the bed.

After an hour of massaging her back, shoulders, and other body parts, She's a drooling mass of relaxation. I love massagin the spots that make a woman arch and jump, and growl in pleasure. She giggles on how happy I've made her. I smile from ear to ear, proud of the state she's in.

By her request, I leave the room, and go watch the baseball game with her roomates. She comes out to get a bite to eat, then wanders back to the bedroom, saying "Who wants a beating?" Giggling, I scamper my way back. It's been since November since I've played with her. I miss all the nasty.

She complains that all the plans she had for me, she has forgotten. I'm instructed to strip, and sit on the bed. As she roots through her closet, I wonder what she might beat me with.

A coathanger?

A shoe?

She pulls out her leather toybag, and tells me to get on the bed, on all fours. She puts a small ballgag in my mouth. It was too small and I worked the strap quite loose quickly, but held it in my mouth, as she wanted me to do it.

I feel the tickling of a light flogger, and her hand spanking me lightly. Nothing was all that painful, but definitly arousing. I felt warm.

Then she started playing with my balls, and clamped down something on them. I heard screwing sounds and felt a board on the backs of my legs. bLater on i found out that the devie was called a "Humbler" which pulled my balls behind me. Now, It didn't hurt once it was on, but it got scary closer to hurting as it clasmped down. And I knew it would hurt if I tried to straighten up/stand up. What was really bad was I felt a fart building. I knew it would be really bad if I let go in her face.

She then beat me with a small cane and a crop. Stingy toys. I'm not fond of stingy toys. But she was light with it and I was into it tonight. She took a potty break, leaving me Stuck in my position on all fours, feeling pressure build, and one of her toys balanced on my butt. However, once out of the room, I burped a few times. Sick, I know.

Some time later (5-10 minutes, I guess) she came back and worked me over, and let her roomate watch. Then I heard it. The familiar sound of a latex glove snapping in position on her hand. She lubed me up, and switched on and off between caning and fingerfucking me. Then some toy invaded me. I was given persimmion to jack off as she fucked and beat me.

The toy was a bit much. Trying to jack off in that position os difficult to say the least. I gave up and just let her fuck me. gg--ggggGood! I didn't cum. But I definitely climaxed. It was a pleasure sensory overload.

All of the fun, not as much mess.
As I was thrown in the shower right afterwards. LOL!

This is an entry I made in my private Journal of an experience in 02/2005.:

On my way to Her house, i was in my usual state of "Not knowing what to expect". Her roomate ushedered me in. i heard Her talking to someone. Then I finally heard her say "Come back here." She had a sad look on her face, and her wife was also looking troubled. She had some troubles and i met them with a long hug. She told me to go to Her room and prepare it, while She talked a bit more. I did so, lit a few candles, and put some music on.

I really thought She'd cancel since She had such a bad day, and She had a lot to talk about. However, that was not the case. After some time waiting and reading some books on knots. She had me strip naked and get on all fours on the bed.

Nails scraped my skin on my chest, back, calves, thighs, butt and crotch. A flogger brushed my back. She cropped my ass lightly, then started stroking my cock from behind me while hitting me harder with the crop, often hitting me right on the asshole. She stopped and massaged my behind and inspected my asshole. She tied up my testicles and held the rope tight so i wouldn't wriggle away from the edge of the bed.

"You've been Fucking yourself, haven't you?" She asked. I felt like being defensive and saying "No", But "occasionally" was the word that came out. "Dirty Whore" was her response (or words to that effect). I stifled my giggling, relieved that I wasn't going to be punished.

She continued to stroke my cock and crop my ass. She'd bring me close to orgasm then give me a hard wack to stop it. Then, She manacled me to the back of Her bedroom door. The loose end of the rope was traced between my buttcheeks, up my back and was put between my teeth for me to hold tight. What i felt was a hard wood paddle hit my ass. I don't know what it was as I never saw it, but it was fan-fucking-tastic.

More of the "Beat and masturbate Scott until he is on the verge of orgasm, then beat him back down to normal." I swear I almost came on her door about five times, but She read me well enough to stop it. I also discovered that by moving my head and shoulders, I could make the rope that was held in my mouth, rub my asshole. I was rimming myself with the rope, being paddled, and jacked off, all at the same time.

I was on the edge of a blissful abyss. I've never been in such "subspace". Growling, Purring, drooling, and giggling at the state i was in.

She stopped. "You're ready" was the command. Back on all fours on the bed was where I was placed. Fingers entering me, Lubing me up, encouraging my anticipation for what was to come.

However, She stopped, left the room and came back, with the sound of something clacnking. Heat! Heat covered the back of my thigh. It was hot wax covering the backs of my thighs, my ass, my asshole... Ever have something hot in there? Amazing is an understatement. No brutish grunts now. More like long moans and purring. I was told later that I had the equivalent amount of 1 whole "Jesus Candle" (one of those candles in a tall glass container). My ass felt like it was completely covered.

Then I was cracked open, wiped of, lubed up, flipped over, and penetrated by Her. It didn't take long for me to approach orgasm. She popped out of me a few times. I guess we'll need a bigger one. God! I love watching a woman fuck me. This was the only time during the session i made eye contact. Seeing Her so hot for wanting to do such naughty, kinky things to me is an incredible turn on. I wrapped my legs around her and came. I gets kind of blurry at this point, i was lost in bliss.

I just may get her a special Fondue dish as a present as I've found that it works well to melt wax in large portions.

Sage is gone. I thought she wanted just a Daddy. The reality is that she wanted a Sugar Daddy.
I have a new lover, Sage. She's an Ex of mine who I rejected for various reasons. However, 2 years later, Sage has fixed many of the problems she had, and the magnetism is stronger than ever. 

My lover was trying to be my sub/slave, back then but now she know she has limits and desires that are on a different path. So, while she wants me she also realises that there are some desires that I need to fullfill. She knows I'm a switch, and still wants me to play.

I'm with her, but very open to play.