proudlyspoiled on Collarspace

I am a happily divorced professional female who is definitely a BBW and depending on who ask I may even be borderline SBBW. I do consider myself attractive, intelligent with alot to offer emotionally and physically however if large women are not your interest let's not waste my time or yours. I am not looking to be kept and I don't need your money.

Truth be told I am a switch however I have created this profile for those times I need to play on bottom. I am not submissive but on those really rough days I am a bottom. 1. I am playful and a tease. Etiquette is great but let's not let it ruin the opportunity to just be. 2. When I am on bottom I want a dominant, but please don't expect me to roll over for you just because you say you are dominant. There are many levels of Dominance and submission and all of them must start in the mind. One must feel the position they are in and let it become who they are. Some find it in great acts of submission while others find it in the most basic sense of serving.
3. I am seeking someone who knows how to communicate and who is intuitive. I am not a mind reader nor are you, I do not know your needs unless you relay them to me nor do you know mine. Communication is a two way street, it takes two people without judgement who are willing to openly and honestly express their needs to one another. 4. Excuse the term but if you’re looking for a "fuck" buddy then you should go find her elsewhere. I do believe sex or sexual orientation can be part of a scene but it is not always involved and it is not the primary goal within a scene. Ultimately I would like to find a lasting relationship however at this moment in my life I just want someone I can play with that I can trust.
Ultimately I would like to find a long term relationship, however for this moment in my life I would be happy with play partners.