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Male Dominant, 45, Lake Oswego, Oregon
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Male Submissive, 48, meerbusch
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Female Switch, 40, Southeast, Florida
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About privatebeauty
About Me
I was collared in a 247 Ds relationship for 7 years. I know what it is and what it is not(see my writing you might be living a fantasy for full details).I know how wonderful it can be and also how heartbreaking. I did not wake up one day and say to myself you know i think id like to complicate the hell out of my life, things are just too damn easy...i know ill be submissive!
I was born this way, submissive by nature. It ishardwired into my DNA and my damn libido It is a scaryexciting thingto allow myself to be thatvulnerable to other surrendering myself to their will, trusting that though they may hurt me they will not harm me.
I also have a mind that i am not afraid to use and opinions which i am not afraid to share. And yes....I know that opinions are like assholes, everyone has them and they all stink! I believe respect is a given, but trust must be earned.
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Honour and Integrity
Two words that get thrown around a lot, but does anyone know what they actually mean?
Words do have meaning. A meaning that is not subject to someones interpretation of those words and how they might be bastardized to apply to themselves.
Below is the actual meaning of two words I actually try to live up to, taken directly from the dictionary, not what I assume they mean or how I wish to apply them to myself.
honour [on-er]
noun 1.honesty, fairness, or integrity in one's beliefs and actions: a man of honor. 2.a source of credit or distinction: to be an honor to one's family. 3.high respect, as for worth, merit, or rank:to be held in honor. 4.such respect manifested: a memorial in honor of the dead. 5.high public esteem; fame; glory: He has earned his position of honor. 6.the privilege of being associated with or receiving a favor from a respected person, group, organization, etc.: to have the honor of serving on a prize jury; I have the honor of introducing this evening's speaker. 7.Usually, honors. evidence, as a special ceremony, decoration, scroll, or title, of high rank, dignity, or distinction:political honors; military honors.
verb (used with object) 13.to hold in honor or high respect; revere:to honor one's parents. 14.to treat with honor. 15.to confer honor or distinction upon:The university honored him with its leadership award. 16.to worship (the Supreme Being). 17.to show a courteous regard for:to honor an invitation. 18.Commerce. to accept or pay (a draft, check, etc.):All credit cards are honored here. 19.to accept as valid and conform to the request or demands of (an official document). adjective 21.of, relating to, or noting honor. Idioms 22.be on /upon one's honor, to accept and acknowledge personal responsibility for one's actions:West Point cadets are on their honor not to cheat on an exam. 23.do honor to, to show respect to. to be a credit to: Such good students would do honor to any teacher.
24.do the honors, to serve or preside as host, as in introducing people, or carving or serving at table: Father did the honors at the family Thanksgiving dinner.
integrity
[in-teg-ri-tee]
noun 1.adherence to moral and ethical principles; soundness of moral character; honesty. 2.the state of being whole, entire, or undiminished: to preserve the integrity of the empire. 3.a sound, unimpaired, or perfect condition: the integrity of a ship's hull.
Actions speak louder than words. What do your actions say? |
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Mama said I’d lose my head
If it wasn’t fastened on.
Today I guess it wasn’t
‘Cause while playing today
It fell off and rolled away
And now it’s gone.
And I can’t look for it
‘Cause my eyes are in it,
And I can’t call to it
‘Cause my mouth is on it
(Couldn’t hear me anyway
‘Cause my ears are on it),
Can’t even think about it
‘Cause my brain is in it.
So I guess I’ll sit down
On this rock
And rest for just a minute….
~Shel Silverstein
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You just might be living a fantasy.....
If you think naked and kneeling is a realistic 24/7.
If you think barking orders is a good way to get through to your submissive/slave.
If you think having your submissive/slave ask permission to enter a room will work long term.
If you have learned everything you know about bdsm from a fiction novel or on line chatting.
If you think all you have to do is add Master to your nick makes you dominant.
If you think "kneel bitch" is a good way to open a conversation with a submissive/slave.
If your dominance or submission begins and ends with the turning on of your computer.
If you think that life won't get in the way.
If you think "yes Master/Mistress" is how you should address all dominant personalities.
If you think submissives are like potato chips and you can never have just one.
If you think hard limits are just a suggestion.
......you just might be living a fantasy.
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NO PIC, NO REPLY!
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