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Male Dominant, 28, London, England
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Male Dominant, 26, colorado springs, Colorado
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Male Dominant, 43
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About Potheadsadist
I am here really looking to meet people, and ideally form a nice long term real relationship. I have written a lot here, and if you find yourself interested please do drop me a line.
I really love the dating process particularly so if its kept nice and well social. I am not in any kind of a hurry for anything and am NOT looking to jump in the sack with anyone. I am single, without children or too much in the way of "negative" baggage.
If you receive a message from me there is something about you that prompted me to make a connection. I thank you for your attention and if you care to, your response
I do consider myself a Dom and have always sought out relationships in that context. I have never had a relationship with someone who is not submissive. I am monogamously minded but I guess as kinky as anyone else around here. While there are lots of things that I like to do and experince I am not terribly hung up on anything. Your Tastes are of interest to me, but I am keener on yourself as a whole person.
I have certainly found that people tune themselves to their partner in some way, I certainly do and try hard
I live in downtown toronto, so I am a bit focused on people I can meet without much fuss about travel. Also I am very well employed and on the succesfull side. I don't have a car so its difficult for me to go any great distance
I like to go out, I am forever meeting up with friends for beers, socializing with corworkers and people I do business with. I would love a companion who enjoyes such things.
I am not interested in social class. I don't care if you have lived on the streets or born in a palace. What I do ask is that you enjoy meeting a wide range of people and have the social graces to be able to go to almost any kind of social event, from some divey beer place to some nice "classy" event.
There are far more positive things than negative about me, but I figure might as well show the negative now so as to not waste anyone's time.
1. I am having a serious battle with smoking, if you have recently quit, or have the same struggle, I am perhaps not good for you right now.
2. As I say I like to go out, this means alcohol is in my life. thus I am totally into an evening with a nice bottle of wine with someone, or an evening on a patio. While I watch myself closely, if you have a serious issue with alcohol, we should not hang out. I like to party but not if its problimatic
3. I smoke pot. its a bit of a fetish for me but also its an occasional weekend kinda thing. You should enjoy the same. While I have been in good relationships with heavy pot smokers, experince has taught me to use caution.
So thats the bad stuff, I hope you're are still reading.
My kink is fun for me and finding someone compatible is really important to me. I have had relationships that spanned all kinds of BDSM behaviour.
Physical play is very much to my taste. however given my "negatives" above I am extremely cautious and mild for quite sometime in a new relationship. I need real feedback from my partner
I particularly love mental play. I find it a rewarding and a wonderfull mental glue to relationships. Private aspects of this are continuous while very subtle public ones are a joy and a pleasure. With me, it does lean towards trampy behaviour on your part so long as it does not stress the relationship. Its very much a training thing with me which is very real. That said I never do anything that in anyway diminishes another person in public. If you are with me, you are by definition the best person ever to my mind.
I love imagination and fantasy,and when plausable like to turn ideas into reality.
If we are at all compatible I can probably work with who you are. By way of example. If you want to be tied to a wall for long periods of time, I would be interested but not for weeks at a time. If you want to be a house slave..I can deal and afford that if your not working. I have had good rewarding relationships with so called "doormats" and "pain sluts". Whatever it is, its important that my partner be happy
As I say though, its the whole relationship that counts.
So if your still reading, and are comfortable with what I have written, I would be delighted to hear from you
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the pile of laundry has taken on godzilla proportions. this is highly disturbing, and yet the obvious solution is not to my interest.
last time I live in a rented space that does not have a laundry machine in it
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perhaps music is a collaberative thing, it takes a social framework for it to be important.
remeber high school ( for me the 70's) entire social tribes where structured around music , remeber the jean jackes with zoso on it, the makeup the clothes, the great parties
felt like the same in the 80s
but the nineties..not so much what happend to music really |
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and really, why are we so tuned as a people to sound and music being art. its common to everyone and so easily shared. paintings are not so attracting, and poetry while an art in it self reaches so few
did our forbearers, by being to drawn to music find they had some kinds of advantage. did we remember better what to do the next day. there is something special with sound |
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well lettsee
tonight I am listening to Kate Bush's king of the mountain piece. been a lifetime fan of her work and its alway a pleasure to remember what attractes me to her art. sigh art in sound
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Another decent Sunday. been traveling the last week and very glad to get home, now if that pile of laundry would vanish the day would be perfect.
As usually just hanging out here looking to chat with fun and interesting people. Say hello if you feel social |
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Its so nice to have a quiet day at home. the apt is for once totally clean and neet, friends and family are doing just great. hopefully its a good year.
I am really enjoying the people here I am meeting. most folks are really pleasent and kinda fun.
If your looking to be social, drop me a hello |
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so its XMAss day, Already home from doing the family thing, catching up on some stuff around the house. If your looking to be social drop me a note |
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Its been a great weekend, and for once I got all the stuff I need to do done. yay
I am just hanging out listing tonight to some Alanis. say high if your hanging out too |
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