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Gotta admit...I'm kind of flattered that a sub thought I stole MY ACTUAL PIC from some other dude. |
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First journal entry in over 2 years. 50 Shades was the worse movie I've seen in a decade. Some points:
-Dude was a sadist, not a dominant
-Anastacia (sp?) topped from the bottom
-Worse writing ever. The theater laughed at the dialog
-The plot suggests that you have to be molested as a child to be a "dom"?
Feel free to message me with more and I'll add it to the list |
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For those sincerely searching for the One, true alpha males don't act like beta males just to conform to what u are looking for. |
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Is it me or is there something weird about people talking about how great and awesome they are in their profiles? Isn't that left up to someone else to judge? I understand confidence and all, but to me it seems like they are trying to convince themselves more than people who are reading their profiles. |
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The documentary "Catfish" explains so much about many on this site. Everyone here should see it. |
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Spend more time in your profile talking about what u ARE looking for and what u OFFER...instead of what you're not seeking and what you're asking.
Please excuse the unsolicited advice. |
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Welcome to all those new CM visitors who arrived via "50 Shades of Gray".
Go slow, play nice, and don't take this site too seriously. |
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A good man does not hinder a sub's progress, but encourages and supports it. Having the right Dom doesn't mean having someone who drags u down.
Just sayin'... |
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Gotta add this...if you're looking for a quality dom (and not a desperate one), u may want to rethink posting pics of u sucking/fucking another man's dick.
Just sayin...
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Saying that you are "looking" is not a sign of weakness. |
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There's a difference between "dom-ing" a woman and "conquering" one... |
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Can u spot the difference between the men who fish on CollarMe with a net rather than rod?
Don't fall for the "cut and paste" generic responses here and you would notice that probably less than 1 in 5 of the dudes actually read your profile before responding. |
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Apparently this requires repeating.
There is a difference between a Dom who is Black, and a "Black Dom". The former is not on here to fuck everyone on the internet, is educated, diverse, and not a stereotype. Get to know one.
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Wow...been receiving alot of compliments on My journal...now I feel the pressure to say something clever or funny.
Today I have nothing...but thank u's. |
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Just a reminder...poly is NOT "swinging" or an "open relationship".
Just sayin... |
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Here's a new one. A submissive expects this Dominant...Black Dominant at that, to "ask permission" of her white "keeper" to talk to her?!? Just wow... |
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He didn't "release u"...he was simply finished.
Just sayin... |
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If you're truly not ready trust a man to submit to him fully, you're not a submissive. If you just want to select the times and ways you want to submit, you're not a submissive. Therefore stop complaining about the men who you run across. True Dominants...those who actually bring more to the table to offer other than dick and drama don't want to be bothered with you.
Just sayin... |
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TOP 10 MOST OVERUSED PHRASES IN PERSONAL ADS
10) "I live life to the fullest!"
(Is this really the most profound philosophical statement you can come up with? Dig a little deeper, Nietzsche.)
9) "Loves to laugh" or "Fun-loving"
(Alright! A person who enjoys laughter and fun. What a rare individual; I must meet her at once. Just once I'd like to see "loves to sob uncontrollably for days on end.")
8) "I'm ____ years old but I look MUCH younger!"
(Sure you do. And if I just did a couple more sit-ups, I could still make the Giants starting lineup. Is self-delusion great or what?)
7) "I'm a down to earth..."
(If I see this phrase one more time, I'll... I'll... I don't know WHAT I'll do! I might be forced to actually turn off my computer and go interact with people in the REAL world. Okay, I probably wouldn't do anything THAT drastic. But you get the idea.)
6) "I can go from jeans to a cocktail dress in 10 minutes!"
(You must be very proud. I can't believe they haven't made this an Olympic event yet.)
5) "I'm a intelegent..."
(If you can't SPELL intelligent... do you see where I'm going with this? Class? Anyone?)
4) "I'm a typical (insert astrological sign here)."
(Astrology? Yeah, it's a science. I think they use it at NASA. I don't even know where to begin here. If you're looking for some insight into the nature of my character, don't ask me what my sign is. Talk to the Easter Bunny, he has the real inside track on me.)
3) "I don't have a pic, but trust me, you won't be disappointed!"
(Trust me, I will.)
2) "Looking for THE ONE" or "Looking for my Soulmate"
(Really? These are the most fresh and original lines you can come up with? Your mother and I had such high hopes for you. Oh well, there's always trade school.)
And the Number One Most Overused Phrase In A Personal Ad is...
1) "Don't worry, I plan to loose [sic] the weight real soon."
(Ok, it's probably just me, but why am I still worried?)
Put them all together, and the end result usually looks something like this....
"Fun-loving, down-to-earth woman with 5 kids from 5 different fathers seeks a intelegint guy who loves to laugh. Must be in shape! I'm temporarily 50 pounds overweight, but don't worry, I plan to loose the weight right after I finish these fries! Must look like Brad Pitt and be no older than 35! I'm 49 but I look MUCH younger! I don't have a pic, but trust me, you won't be disappointed! I'm a Libra so I live life to the fullest! I get along best with Geminis who have six-figure incomes! Must have a big heart and a bigger house, cuz the landlord just kicked us out!"
(Well, as long you have realistic expectations.) |
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The older I get, the more I DESPISE the treadmill :-(
But I can be just another Dom on CM with a budda belly...lol Let Me get this over with... |
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Never forget ladies...no matter how you wish it wasn't the case, men are PHYSICAL creatures first and foremost. How are u going to take care of Me if u cannot take care of yourself? |
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"One cannot expect to master another if one can not first master himself. Dominance is not about oppression, it's about knowing another person fully, inside and out and being worthy of the trust of their submission" - Silkcollar
Stop falling for the "style" and look for substance in a Dom. You'll then realize that while there is no shortage of dominant profiles, there is a shortage of true Dominants. |
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Headed the The Trap Halloween party with My sub for the third-straight year. We'll be the dress as the "Kinky Black Nerds" Hellz yea! |
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Nevermind "submissiveness"...I'd settle for manners and maturity.? Having serious doubt about lightening striking twice on CM.
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Not here for entertainment purposes...
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Still waiting to see a submissive/slave profile that even MENTIONS what they have to offer...instead of what they want/require from a dom.? Just sayin'...
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How can u consider yourself a dom when u live with your momma and sister? (mastersoulja)?
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***Just because you're not first, doesn't make you "second"***
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'Preciate the offers, but I am not on CM for "online friends".
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"Listen to what I say...not what u think I mean."
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Really surprised at the number of so-called submissives who really need a "D-o-D" (Dom on demand).? Also, those Black subs who feel that only a white dom can be "on their level"...and actually feel that one will take them seriously...and not just a curious sexual diversion.
Oh well...We keep pushin' on...
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The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
Trying a different flavor of D/s can may expose u to something even better than what you thought you want.
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GREAT quote from "newsub4blackDom"
"If he cannot be Master over himself, then he will not, and cannot be my Master."
Ladies...stop falling for dudes who do not even have control of their own lives. This ESPECIALLY means men who need to lie about themselves and their situations. |
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Maybe its just Me, but I really don't get all of the so-called D/s-ers into swinging.? I just can never just hand over My well-constructed and maintained property to some other dude to enjoy her without any of the responsibility.?
Is it just Me?
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Actually saying "I'm not your average..." or "I'm not your typical..." DOES make you average and typical.
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More unsolicited advice to subs from a Dom...
TAKE YOUR TIME when meeting a new dom.? If u are only with him for a few weeks or a month or two,? and then he uses the "I'm too busy" excuse, then u were never his sub...u were his conquest...and he has moved on to the next.
Get to know where his head is first before surrendering your body.? Just My 2 cents...
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To the submissives on CM who have been holding out for their perfect dom for years...what u feel is the "perfect situation" not only does NOT exist, but is not "perfect". ?
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I truly believe most are more interested in "the search" than finding "the One".
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My lovely sub (whom I met on here going on 2 yrs ago) finally joined Me on the treadmill...and said she liked it.
Things are pretty good now...
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Are u here sincerely seeking a dominant...or simply enjoying the attention of all of the online "suitors" who provide the attention missing from your "offline" life?
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"Mentoring", "Under protection", "Training", "Under the guidance", etc
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Doms get to "play" with a sub for a little while and let her go when they're tired of her.? All the benefits of being a dom without the responsibilities.
Just something to merinate on...
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MAAAN!!!? The nigerians have been really busy creating fake profiles lately!? Are there any real ones left?
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Not every Black dominant is a "manwhore" just trying to fuck as many "subs" as he can.? Stop stereotyping.
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On a free site like CM, MOST are going to be fakes and liars.? No need for every sub to complain about it in their profile.? Accept it and get over it.
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Quoted from a certain CM profile:
?"5'5", size 20, 225lbs (submissive)...seeking?ONE?SLIM TO MEDIUM?or MUSCULAR DOMINANT"
Really?!?? :-|
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Submissive profiles/journals about what they offer...rather than what they "require" from a dom are refreshing...?
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Is the glass half full or empty?? If u are constantly looking for something negative in people, u will always find it.?
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IF CM DID AN IP BLOCK FOR NIGERIA, WOULD THERE BE ANY MORE PROFILES LEFT?? HMMMM...
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u can really tell alot about a "sub" by the length of her "Hard Limits" list.
If the submissive sets the tone of what is and is not allowable, doesn't that make her the dominant???
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D/s MENTOR
- A method used to get all of the benefits (sexual, etc) of a submissive/slave...without the accompanying responsibility of being a real-life, offline dominant.
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People...ITS THE INTERNET!!!? I want to request an end to all of the endless complaining profiles and journals about how bad the do called doms are on this site.? Everyone sounds the same!
Unfortunately, the online forum allows any dude who cannot get women in the real world or married men looking for something new to create any persona they want.? Expect the bullshit.? It is what it is.? Just ignore the losers.? Be positive.? Let actions speak.? Utilize the "Block User" function.
That is all...
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