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Hi people I'm completely new to this site. I'm also new to the lifestyle, but not new to the ideas it encompasses. My fantasies seem to revolve around submitting, both in the passive sense and the active sense, which is why I list myself as a switch. I guess the label to apply to my fantasies are "power exchange". I hesitate to add the adjective "total" to that phrase as I don't particularly like to talk in absolutes, though I see that many people on here write in their profile that they don't have any limits, something I'm having a hard time wrapping my brain around. I certainly do have limits, which in broad terms I have categorized into the following: that which is considered illegal, that which exposes one to unnecessary risk of being injured/contracting disease, that which may cause permanent marks. I'm hoping to find that someone who'd be open to helping me explore and understand this side of myself. Either on a mental or physical level, preferably both. The gesture would naturally be reciprocated. I'm a fairly private person, but I'd like to meet someone like-minded that I can trust and be completely honest and open with. Someone I can share my thoughts and ideas with, and who can share their thoughts and ideas with me. I consider myself to be a normal, well educated, and socialized individual. Additionally, I don't smoke, I never drink excessively, and I don't do drugs. I would prefer that you were of a similar inclination regarding the latter.
reddanegirl
 
 Age: 35
 Columbus, Ohio