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I am a relatively quiet, funny guy in Northern Delaware, with a small family, a good job, a decent house, and three cats. My friends and co-workers think that I am relatively conservative, down-to-earth, and--vanilla--but what they don't realize is that I have a dark side.

To put things in perspective, I enjoy administering the strap, sometimes the cane, to a willing ass. I don't do much bondage, not into the very bizarre, and don't usually indulge in the arts of social domination (ordering around, slavery, etc.). Humiliation can be a joyful component of the experience, but it is neither required nor appropriate in all instances.

The paradigm encounter for me: you casually remove your clothing, as if it were nothing more than coverings and holds no social stigma to be without. You bend over a convenient piece of furniture and I apply my belt to your ass. Each smack is requested by you--I do not whip anyone without permission--and your face retains a graceful, undisturbed aloofness. At the end, you are rewarded or punished based upon your performance (and the reward or punishment is nearly always sexual).

I have never understood why it seems like Doms have this need to seem brusque, bossy, stern, and, well sometimes downright mean.  I believe in appreciating the services rendered by a sub, and any punishment for failure to perform is administered with the same somber disappointment of a father forced to punish his child for some minor transgression.

If you are close by and relatively masochistic, drop me a line.

By the way, if you are male, please do not bother responding.  I usually have a good demeanor, but if you cannot read to see that I am not looking for a male sub, I may become temporarily verbally abusive in order to deter you from being a pest to future Doms.
An easy one.  "It's not that he doesn't have to shoot you now, it's that he doesn't have to shoot me now... but I say he does have to shoot me now... so shoot me now!" *bang*

I ran into someone's profile in which she puts up a quote from her favorite shows and gives "brownie points" to anyone that can identify them.  I like the idea, and so I've decided to start doing it as well.  The additional benefit to this exercise is that one can tell a lot about a person by what kind of movies he or she likes... I think everyone should do this!


So to start off:  "Initiative comes to those that wait."

So I've been looking around for a new site to park in, since Yahoo's interface is inadequate and I'm conerned that it will soon stop offering service at all.? I seem very vanilla to the people around me, but I enjoy posting little vignettes and fantasies.? So I'm going to give this site a try.? If you see anything you like and want to give a try, you know how to reach me....