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Male Submissive, 48, cleveland, Ohio
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About PlyTheFlesh
I have been a member here @ CM for a number of years. I describe myself as a Dominant Male because that is my natural state. In my considered opinion whether my mate is a slave to me or a submissive to some less intense state is something that lies in and is part of our relationship. I do not ask or require a title such as Sir or Master. Far too many don these titles like signs hung in their front lawns. If the object of my Desire finds it appropriate to call me Sir or Master, we have arrived there together and cultivated a bond that has earned that respect and trust. If you address others as Sir w/o this background that is your choice. It tells me that we may feel differently about what BDSM means. My interests in the lifestyle are varied and dictated by my primary driving force...seeing my submissive in the throes of unbridled Ecstasy. For those of you who are interested I choose not to partner with obese women, which is my right, true women of beauty and strength who happened to be built on an amazon's frame are very welcome and appreciated. I have nothing against anyone (except the close-minded among us) it is just not my thing. If you are One who's lifestyle desires are an essential part of you and your love relationship then I would like to talk to you. And yes, like you, I require a photo of YOU, not one plucked from the internet and given made-up stats as many seem to be doing of late.
Finally if I have contacted you and you feel it was unjust of me to do so, simply reply that you are not interested, and kindly keep the rudeness to yourself. If I have been less than kind with you it is doubtless in response to you being ignorant with me. I will discuss, civilly anything you care to.
If you are curious about me or anything I have been unclear about, simply ask. This includes those who are new to lifestyle and would like someone to discuss issues with or have questions answered The search goes on.....
The fates has smiled upon me ...after literally searching for years I have met my One. I have been shown what true love feels like (and it's even better than I had dreamed it). I will remain a member here and read and converse with friends as ever. She is collared and Bliss,. and I am eternally grateful to have been united with her at long last |
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Again I return to visiting this site after an extended time away. Sometimes life gets in the way of our loves. It still amazes me the level of mental defect exhibited by some women and yes probably men as well but since I am not bi I can not comment on that side. We are presumably all adults here and as such should be mature enough to discuss issues and thoughts relating to lifestyle without fear of recrimination. Break out your dictionary if you can't follow english cleary written.
Whether we find someone to act upon our fantasies in r/t is not the issue.Some of us, myself included, see this and other similar sites as just that, a forum where we can discuss openly fetishes that some 'vanilla' sites deem unacceptable or even obscene. We get our collective kinks on in a place where it is not offensive to those whose sit on the sidelines and referee the rest of the World. Well at least that is the idea as I understood it.
Recent events have reminded me that our Altworld is also a convenient hiding place for many individuals who harbor a wide range of psychological issues and live their kink only in the recesses of their minds. Fantasy is healthy even mainstream experts concede that these days. That does not however give you the right to appoint onesself to the Thought Police and force your views upon me. I do not expect to agree with everyone I encounter in life, alternate and otherwise. But as in life I vehemently defend our collective right to discuss and agree to disagree. If that is too much for you to handle you should not enter into the arena in the first place. Rather it might be best if you recede back into the cobwebbed corners of your mind you only explore while sitting at your computer and pretend to have a life. And of course to be an intellectual. Artistic expression is individual in all its forms. If you put yourself out there in that way you should expect reactions both positive and negative. Art after all is to be shared and enjoyed or at times just left as it is...there for all to experience. Obvious though all this will be to the truly adult out there some still just don't get it and that I fear is the first indicator of mental defect.
To those of you who do not suffer from these ailments I say it has been great talking with you. If we stop the discourse we stop growing....and when we stop growing we begin dying. I for one am far too young and full of life to lie down and die.
Dissenting opinions are welcomed as always if you are adult enough to hear as well as be heard. And if you are not so childish as to comment and then block responses....grow the fuck up. You know who you are. |
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Yesterday has restored my faith in the belief that our chosen Alternate World does have it's sane and indeed intelligent inhabitants as well. Thank you to those fine ladies who chose to respond with dignity and grace, you know who you are! And much to my pleasant surprise some of you are honest, open and might I add delisciously sexy as well....score one for the side of the REAL. To those of you whose experience has been less than pleasing, hold on to hope, be REAL and maybe just maybe someone will appear from a hidden corner and fill your thoughts with long forgotten dreams....it can happen! |
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I have returned to collarme after a long absence, unfortunately to find that very little seems to have changed in my absence. So many here bemoan the hard time they have getting to really know someone of true depth and any 'real' people here. The problem I can most certainly identify with, I too have met a few very confused individuals here. The solution on the otherhand is what I disagree with. Closing onesself down to talking with anyone and perusing through your e-mails to 'filter out the fakes' is counter intuitive to me. When someone who wishes to deceive has all the time they wish to concoct an identiy they are more likely to be able to fool you than when faced with realtime questions and answers. At least that is the way I see it. Real people tend not to hide but to be open to real discussion and confident in sharing their views. So if a chat window is not distant and protected enough for you, it is likely your issues are to deep for me to help you thru, a pro would be better at that. And yes I welcome any dissenting opinions to be expressed as well, talking is how we get to know one another. |
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Don't know what to make of this place yet. Some very interesting profiles, but it seems to be alot of declarations of ownwership....I'm not sure about the need to announce to the World..."I am not available, I am owned by...Sir Fill in the Blanks". Guess I just see the D/s relationship as a more spiritual thing and less about the ritual. Different strokes...I will find my One True One...if not here...that's ok too. |
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