I have been a long time lurker here on Collarme and finally decided to start a journal in hopes of getting some help with questions I have. I like to look at the different profiles taking note of the various differences of the people here on Collarme.
 I am a bi sub so the majority of profiles I look at are the female Domme profiles. I do on occasion look at the male Dom profiles but I don't find those profiles as interesting mainly because for me sex with a man is just that, "sex". I can't seem to find the emotional attatchment and attraction to a man that I find with a woman.
 Once the attraction, interests, trust and hard limits have been established I have no problem submitting to and serving my Mistress and her desires even if it means pushing my hard limits. Bottom line I love to make my Mistress happy.
 On my profile I mentioned that I have been on the Dominant side of things but I find more pleasure in being the submissive and serving the needs of others before my own needs. Which brings me to one of my questions. I understand that as a submissive my main priority is to submit to my Mistress' needs no matter what those needs might be. However, meeting the needs of my Mistress, rewarding as it is, I find myself with certain wants to help make me feel more complete as a sub. Is it wrong to respectfully mention these needs to my Mistress?