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Male Submissive, 54, Rockland/nnj, New York
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Male Submissive, 49, Naperville, Illinois
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Male Dominant, 36
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About plugnplaymt
Its so hard to put down in words what I am looking for and wanting out of life. I have found that being on the Dominate side of things does in itself bring its own pleasures in life, but I have found that being on the submissive side of things brings me more pleasure. If that makes any sense. I find more pleasure in serving others needs and putting them first before mine gives me great pleasure. |
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I have been a long time lurker here on Collarme and finally decided to start a journal in hopes of getting some help with questions I have. I like to look at the different profiles taking note of the various differences of the people here on Collarme. I am a bi sub so the majority of profiles I look at are the female Domme profiles. I do on occasion look at the male Dom profiles but I don't find those profiles as interesting mainly because for me sex with a man is just that, "sex". I can't seem to find the emotional attatchment and attraction to a man that I find with a woman. Once the attraction, interests, trust and hard limits have been established I have no problem submitting to and serving my Mistress and her desires even if it means pushing my hard limits. Bottom line I love to make my Mistress happy. On my profile I mentioned that I have been on the Dominant side of things but I find more pleasure in being the submissive and serving the needs of others before my own needs. Which brings me to one of my questions. I understand that as a submissive my main priority is to submit to my Mistress' needs no matter what those needs might be. However, meeting the needs of my Mistress, rewarding as it is, I find myself with certain wants to help make me feel more complete as a sub. Is it wrong to respectfully mention these needs to my Mistress?
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