I'm back carefully looking for that special Dom. I have few limits and love not knowing what is in store for me today. I'm a BBW and like who I am. I don't want to be a quick sexual outlet for a lonely man. I want a Dom who's thoughts broach on the Deviant. Safe sex is a must. I'm married and I do not enjoy this lifestyle with my husband. I'm not in a rush and don't feel like a few messages means I'm anyone's property. That's trust that is earned on both sides. For the Dom has to trust his sub just as she has to trust him. I'm not likely to meet in person after a few messages. I've been down a road where I met quite a few Doms for lunch or drinks and it just became tedious to get to a point where I could say it wasn't a good fit. I'm not every one's cup of tea...but I believe there are folks that think if you meet them ... even if they don't want to see you again...that they expect and want at least a little sex or play. That's not only UNfun and UNinteresting...it's dangerous.
Just because I view your profile or even have the common courtesy to respond to your message, does not mean I owe you an explanation or even a message. I don't expect or receive a message from everyone that views my profile yet some people want to know why I didn't message when I viewed. I have alot more respect for those that go ahead and say hello and ask if I'd like to get to know them rather than those who simply message saying "you viewed my profile but didn't message? a simple not interested would do" That's crazy talk. haha (I always at least respond with at least a no thanks to a first message..I may not repond once someone can't take no for an answer.)
I love messaging and figuring out if I've met a potential friend or even a potential Dom (which is rare). I have the utmost respect for Doms, subs and Switches alike. But the "sub" in my profile does not promise submission to everyone that messages me just because their profile says "Dom"
btw...my name is the same on ALT dot com. My profile is much more polite. For some reason I don't have to ask men to be polite or decent on that site. I've met some wonderful men and Doms from collarme but I've also met some really ridiculous Doms. I'm patient and believe I will again find a real and honest and reasonable Dom. Good day wonderful friends.
