Thought I'd explain more about what I seek.  Sometimes I hesitate to be too specific because every relationship is different.  Of course, that's the way it should be because any relationship is the coming together of 2 individual's desires and needs, whether those needs and desires are Dom's or sub's.  So keep that in mind as you continue to read.  I seek a Dom/sub relationship that is based on sexual dominance. Therfore, my submissive would be very sexual.  I would control all orgasms and orgasm permission, whether we were together or apart.   It would include orgasm denial and forced orgasms.  Of course, I would train my submissive to fulfill all my sexual needs and desires too.  The rest of the relationship would be based on us as individuals.  That's what would determine the dominance and submissiveness outside of the sexual aspects of the relationship.  I hope this is clear enough to shed light on what I seek but, not too specific that it can be mistaken that I'm looking for a one dimensional relationship.