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PlayCate

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Dominant Couple, 71, Boynton Beach, Florida
Switch Couple, 33, San Francisco, California
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About PlayCate

"Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love." ~ Rumi

Just trying to see if this place is for me. So far most people don't really appear to be who they are, but still withholding judgment. I'm flirty, real, honest (yeah, I know, that's what everyone claims), sophisticated in my tastes, intelligent, well-educated, and yes, I own a backbone.

I love books and music (classic rock, jazz, classical, and opera), museums and theater. I run, ski, and sing badly and loudly in my car. My only addictions: adrenaline and Jimmy Choo shoes.

I want a friend first -- then a dom who gets it that there's a real life that exists outside the realm of play time. Anyone can talk the dom talk; few, though, truly walk the walk. You are educated, articulate, cultured, funny, successful in whatever way you've chosen to spend your working life, and creative in your kink.


I love to laugh and I enjoy spending my time with people who love to laugh too AND who make me laugh. And while I don't particularly enjoy those chalky marshmallows in Lucky Charms, I do have an affinity for the concrete raisins in Raisin Bran.

I'm not interested in CM lifers. If you're on here 24/7, I'm not interested.

And PUHLEEEEZE do not tell me I'm "indeed a breath of fresh of air." There's a guy on here who uses that silly line every time he contacts me--yes, he must have a short memory. Turns out after chatting with other women on CM, it's his standard line. Maybe he's suffering from oxidative stress from all that fresh air.

Photo sent by polite request -- for your private viewing. I'd rather not see clones of me being issued from Nigeria looking for bank account numbers.
"Each of us, face to face with other men, is clothed with some sort of dignity, but we know only too well all the unspeakable things that go on in the heart."  Pirandello
"Beware of young women who love neither wine nor truffles nor cheese nor music." - Colette
July 4

"Most people would rather die than think; in fact, they do so." (especially on CM)  Bertrand Russell
June 24

"Seduction isn't making someone do something they don't want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing something they secretly want to do already."  I don't know who wrote this.  I wrote it in my journal a couple of years ago, but it came from something I read.

June 3 To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be. March 25 Little do men perceive what solitude is, and how far it extendeth. For a crowd is not company, and faces are but a gallery of pictures, and talk but a tinkling cymbal, where there is no love. ~ Sir Francis Bacon February 17 "The man who has no imagination has no wings." ~ Muhammad Ali LOL -- then this site is filled with albatrosses! February 5 Collarme: It's a mindfuck on an arena size scale. January 30 "I do it because I can --I can because I want to -- I want to because you said I couldn't." January 23 "And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye." Antoine de Saint-Exupery January 12 "Some of us think holding on makes us strong; But sometimes it is letting go." ~Hermann Hesse January 8 They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel. January 4 Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation. January 2 Lots of new resolutions from the 31st that I wasted no time breaking on the first. Don?t ask me why I still go for the resolutions, the whole New Year's thing has a huge effect on me. December 28 Live life as an exclamation, not an explanation, for life is best lived at the edge of the abyss. December 27 In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. ~Albert Schweitzer December 24 Wishing you and yours a bedazzling cornucopia of holiday cheer!
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