Do you get it????

So many people on here complain about the lack of honesty and integrity of the people on this site. We all complain about the wannabes and wankers

Well there remains some of us who truly seek that special someone who truly gets it.

This lifestyle is not all about you the Dom/me, as much as that doesn’t sound submissive, both people need to be getting something from the relationship for both to be happy in it. If your sub is not being fulfilled they will continue to look until they find what they need, as their needs are as important to them as your needs are to you.

For me any relationship requires TEECC an acronym that is the basis of any relationship whether D/s or not

Time
Effort
Energy
Commitment
Consistency

That said;

i seek a passionate, loving, romantic, self assured, strong dominant personality. Those are the qualities that really reach my inner self.

i have always wondered if you can have a loving D/s relationship, and i believe the answer is yes. If someone cares enough about me then they will expend the energy to correct behaviors that are contrary to the good of the relationship, while at the same time rewarding behaviors that are good for the relationship. All of the things that i do are out of love for they who own me and the pleasure they get from my service. I do not wish to fear my owner rather serve out of the love i have for them.

Here is what i offer in return;

Passion, romance, affection, servitude and a long term commitment to those who share these ideals. I have long term plans outside of the lifestyle that i wish to include my owner in.

My idea of play turns to the dark side of the force and truly enjoy the more extreme sorts of play but can play on any level.

If there is passion there is heat, if there is heat there is fire and intensity grows from the heat of the fire.

MY passions are D/s as a lifestyle, BDSM, cross dressing.

While play is important i find at this stage it is far from primary. For me the love, passion, romance, and D/s are the primary needs. D/s is the life, BDSM is the gravy. That said I do have need for a sexual and or play relationship and am not fulfilled by service alone.

It is my goal as a sub to grow to be a service orieneted slave but i am human and retain the needs of a person for love, passion, sex and intemancey.


i have been involved in the D/s and BDSM world a very long time, for me it began in '65.

When i arrived in Ohio there was not a true D/s presence in the community. I took it upon myself with the help of others to create the only true D/s support group in the area. in 2008 we celebrated our tenth anniversay making us one of the longest surviving groups in the Columbus area.

To that end i am well know in the alternative lifestyle community.

i promise to all that answer timely and honest replies. Communication and honesty is paramount. I will contact you daily in response to any questions you might have

Much thanks