PiercedMember

Heres one thing I don't understand, I see plenty and I mean PLENTY of journal rants and profile posts by females saying "I want you to be respectful when you message me, I want you to read my entire profile before you message me, I won't respond to any mean or hateful messages and say more than just hey and have a real message to send and I won't respond to anyone who dosen't follow the things I just said." NOW thats just fine by me everyone deserves respect and to not be treated like a piece a shit. (unless thats your thing) What I don't get is I follow these things, I send 2-3 paragraph messages, very respectful, detailed, and honest, and I just see em get read and deleted or just simply deleted without being read, and half if not three quarters of the time it's the females saying these things. I don't understand it, now don't get me wrong I don't strut around like I think my shit don't stink or think I'm God's gift to women, but hell, I can start to understand why most of you ladies out there get fucked up messages, your all looking for your Christian Grey when in reality he'd probably just walk right by half of you like you didn't even matter, and right now I can see why.

Starting to think people don't listen (read) on this site. I'm a pretty open minded person, very respectful and kind hearted. However thats not to be confused with my D side. I am fairly flexiable in a sexual manner. I even go as far as to put down exactly what I'm looking for in my profile like 90% of every one else, and I can understand the frustration some feel when their profile isn't fully read, that being said I am 100% fine with whatever your into sexually or kink wise, however some of those kinks and what have you might not be my own I respect it. That is unless of course your kinks and fetishes border or are on the illegal side. I figure I gotta say it again though, I am only attracted to females, and transexuals. NOT a guy that decideds hes female for the day because he throws on a pair of panties and a bit of make-up, again I respect your lifestyle and what makes you feel good its just not my thing, that being said I don't mind talking or being freinds with other males just nothing "play" wise.

even though I'm fairly new to this site, I must say after reading several members journal entrees about how there are fakes and respectable people  on here, now is it really any different then having a profile with no pictures, or asking to have a picture sent in the message that's sent to you? is it really that difficult after you're done reading a message to click said users profile to see there picture? now i can understand being picky as well, no one wants to submit or Dom someone there not attracted to I get that, and unless you're getting around 30 messages a d n't find it hard to send a message to someone to let them know you're not interested, even as a strait male I let the other men know that wish to submit to me that I'm not interested in a respectable way of course, now don't get me wrong if someone is an ass to you or they send you a message that lacks character or the scene of being an actual message by all means feel free to blow off i agree 100%, but don't jazz up you're profile and then neglect it, and not everyone here is a fake just from corresponding with a few members on here, I believe there are quite a few real subs/slaves/Doms/Dommes/switches on here, like anything else I think its still like trying to find that needle and a haystack and wile it may take a while to find said "needle" i would say keep looking, it's not ganna happen over night, even though we would all like it to, thats just not the way it works.