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Male Dominant, 40, USA/GTA, Massachusetts
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Male Dominant, 26, taken, Georgia
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About PhoenixRising4U
Knee is healing well...Thanks to everyone who has sent well wishes and concern. there will always be an ongoing issue with arthritis or stiffness now when the weather get wet and or cold but i have dealt with worse so.... lol
https://.com/users/347648 Link to fetife profile which is this profile just copied but there are a few extra pictures of me there that are not here. I also have a facebook account that has a few updated pictures of me from 4 months ago before i decided to trust my beautiful long hair to a salon instead of my daughter. *smiles warmly*
Sincerely,
Julia
LET ME MAKE THIS PERFECTLY CRYSTAL CLEAR.
I AM NOT HERE TO PLAY GAMES AND I HATE PLAYERS WHO HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO THAN HURT INNOCENT LADIES WHO ARE TRYING TO BE WHO THEY ARE NATURALLY DESTINED TO BE.
i DO NOT HAVE TIME TO INVEST IN FANTASY OR GAMES AND I AM TIRED OF BEING HURT AND REJECTED BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT MAN ENOUGH. I AM TIRED OF INVESTING HOURS,DAYS AND SOMETIMES MONTH TRYING TO REACH OUT AND TRUST SOMEONE ONLY TO GET WARNING LETTERS NEXT DAY THAT SAY YOU ARE NOT REAL. HOW CAN YOU HURT WOMEN SO BLINDLY YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELVES.
I am reasonably sure I know what I don't want and for sure I can tell you one thing I hate. It is people who play on sites like this and misrepresent themselves and then show up and are something TOTALLY different than what their profile says they are. I may not be 100% secure in the body I live in but it is my body and I don't lie about it. If you don't like large women then don't waste my time saying you do and then become a different person once you walk in the door. I am not a player but I do DISLIKE players. Even the best person on earth can not account for everything, part of being submissive is learning together. So if I happen to forgotten to include anything please don't make me out to be the marter as I am far from perfect.
I think it only fair that I begin with a small disclosure and I don't really care who thinks it to show non submissiveness like behavior for me to be so blatantly honest but this is my profile if Y/you don't like it look elsewhere. I have been through a lot in life and I have experienced a lot within the lifestyle. If You think You are man enough to RESPECT me and You make it through the list of dislikes then W/we can talk.
Good Luck and Happy Hunting...lol
I am an abuse SURVIVOR which is part of the reason why I have so many limits physically and mentally but I am working on them. Life is a whole new adventure and I am traveling down a whole new river, most days the river is calm and we discover new things everyday but like most adventures there are storms and yes I am not perfect and the boat capsizes and I feel like I am drowning. In the game of life sometimes you have to drown to see the path of life open again so you can you can continue on your quest.
DISLIKE/LIMITS/DON'T WANT/WON'T DO/DON'T GO THERE, GOT IT:
I am not a girly girl, meaning I do not spend my life and my money in salons getting hair and nails done. I do not spend hours every morning curling hair, putting on tons of make up, filing nails etc. My daughter cuts my hair in between two jobs and school that is my day in a salon so to speak.
I am however a lady and expect to be treated as such and always do my best to dress "appropriately" for You when called for, otherwise I dress for pure comfort.
I HATE: body odor, bad breath and poor hygiene...come on guys really... someone developed soap, deodorant, shampoo and mouthwash for a reason...learn to use it. I may be a larger woman but I get up every morning and wash my entire body, shampoo my hair, brush my mouth with mint toothpaste and gargle even though I lost my teeth to wrong end of a fist doesn't mean I ignore my mouth. I have dentures but after 20 years without teeth they are like a foreign object in my mouth destined to kill me...lol
I DO NOT AND WILL NOT: Eat bodily fluids or like smelling bodily fluids. I am not going to rim your ass, drink your urine, smell your feces or eat them or for the time being drink your cum. I do not want to smell your sweaty feet or arm pits and I am not licking your smelly feet or sucking gnarly toes. My ex abuser was not only an abuser but he was also addicted badly to drugs and was a severe alcoholic. I developed a "phobia" to body odor after literally smelling his body "rot" before my eyes for 13 years. Body odor and bodily fluids are a VERY powerful trigger for me.
I DON'T need you to try and recount my profile fetish for fetish meaning if you are lucky enough to be with me please don't say I noticed your profile said and then do it. Be spontaneous guys please. I wrote the darn profile I know what it says I don't need you to tell me what it says before you do it step by step.
I Don't like: Breast torture...meaning lets not rip off the shirt and try to rip off my nipples 5 seconds later with your mouth or clamps... slow and steady wins the race guys.
I Don't Like: A man who doesn't know how to stop once He gets going and forgets who he is dealing with. I am your canvas to manipulate and paint on if you were painting on a real canvas would you begin by ripping it up with a whip? Would you rather go slow and draw graceful lines upon it layer by layer till you have a great work of art. As much as I love and adore the lifestyle I do not get a chance to participate in it very often so the thought of someone pulling out a cane to whip on my back is not high on my list.
I AM NOT: A slut, whore, bitch, masochist, pain slut or doormat.
I am a lady and again expect to be treated like one. If I was in a LTR I would be anything You wanted me to be in private there is a huge difference between a man you have known for years lovingly calling you his slut and some man you just met 5 minutes ago calling you the same thing online or in person.
Some things I know I like: Just because I like them, again it doesn't mean that You have to make everyone of them happen in one session. I think of the lifestyle like a dance slow and steady walk up the side of a mountain till you get to the peak and just want to jump off and fly forever.
I ADORE Bonadge: especially shibari but sometimes just restraining my arms is enough (give me my restraints and enough room to respond and I am in heaven.) or slowly tie me up into a pretzel. Oddly enough the best time I ever had in bondage was in a Japanese Punishment Corset I believe it was called, if that was punishment I am really warped. My entire upper body was bound beautifully but the kicker was it wrapped around my private parts so if I moved... well I will leave the rest up to your imagination...lol Just remember I am 50 years old and not 20 year old yoga instructor so be gentle ok? I may think like a 20 year old but the body doesn't always follow...lol
I Love to be spanked: Flogging especially is a huge turn on for me. Please note I did not say whipping, thrashing or beating. I don't want to be worked over till I have marks all over my body. I think of spanking like foreplay before sex. Slow and steady builds the heat to rabid boil. |
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