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About PhoeniixHasRisen
Ideal Person: I'm looking for someone who is honest, sincere, obedient, very loyal, trustworthy, truthful, open minded, kind, and considerate. Not to mention loving, romantic, passionate and erotic. extremely sensual, sexual, yet places our natural roles first,
I am a Dominant All the time in and out of the bedroom....
Not into playing games: Say What you mean, Mean What you say, I DON'T mince words, Be Real, Be Sincere, Then and only then, You will become the Submissive, Or Slave that you desire to be.
Creativity is a plus, I seek my counter part to have intelligent conversations with, One who understands that what ever I say is just important to myself As you would also like to express your idealisms with me.
You should also be educated, I enjoy the study of human behaviors, metaphysics, philosophy, psychology and sociology. and nature. I enjoy my work, Raq Ball, Working out at the gym, helping others, relaxing in a Hot tub, reading a good book, listening to good music
I like to travel, you should be D/D Free, A light smoker and drinker is okay.
You must love outdoor activities, camping, Some of our Scenes will be conducted at these places, Why confine them just indoors, work up a sweat & tan at the sametime.
I'm NOT into Bratty Submissive's, If you're going to place AOL or Chat rooms, Or other people before our relationship (With the exception of FAMILY)...Keep searching else where, I should come first, As you will always come first with in my own life, This is not a union between you & I, It's a merging of our souls becoming one. I am very adamant about this, I don't take this lightly. Even my own family knows I'm set in my ways,
I'm a very strong minded individual, Yet, If I own someone, Not only would I cherish them, But hold them in the highest regards, I'm very realistic, yet I am very creative, If there was one word to describe me, that would be honorable, For I live up to my word,
I DON'T make false promises, If I promise something Or anything, I tend to keep that Promise... I will expect many things from you, One thing I do expect is that you give yourself at a 100% As I will, Any relationship, Takes hard work, No days off, no vacations, It's an ongoing process, And if you stick with it, and give it all you have, the rewards are greater then you could ever dream.
If you're a Female Submissive Or Slave, That desires to be owned, Feel free to contact me either via E-mail And/ Or IM , I would relocate for the right Sub /Slave Girl.
Phoeniix...
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Female Dommes, Mistress, Are nothing but a joke, especially these little young girls under 25 claiming to be....These are the types of girls that were either picked on by the stupid air head bimbos that were cheerleaders or they were the stupid air head cheerleaders that didn't grow up. ENOUGH SAID. Do not get me wrong. I do respect female dommes who are about 30 or older that have enough sense to know what's going on. |
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Look, I see this happening between both men & women on this site from either seeing conversations or in profiles how MANY express how some aren't real on this site, Which is true.
I've been involved in Ds/Bdsm for a very long time, longer then most MY age. However I am speaking to those just beginning this venue, If you should happen to recieve an Email Even by myself. At least have the decency to send a short reply.
If you want respect or have others continue to show you respect. try to show the same kindness in return as they have shown you. I recieve many Emails Whether be someone seeking Guidance, Or Advice, or perhaps Interested in myself. As soon as I open their Note, E-mail I respond right there before reading another.
"I believe that person deserves that much at least. If you claim to be a Submissive or Slave, Or Dominant,
"Then conduct yourselves as such, Don't talk the talk if you cannot walk the walk.
Play safe Play hard, but whatever you do...Enjoy one another. The chains that bind, are the loving chains of love. Phoeniix~ |
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This question is from a few of my readers. i.e. "Why is it within this lifestyle many choose to still act vanilla?
My response as well as "MY OWN" opinion is Just this. Many are insecure of themselves. Even though they made the choice to follow or lead. Yes I am speaking of each role a person lives. They do not commit to themselves completely "Thus not committing to their selected partners. "Don't just say you're a Dominant/Submissive/Slave...
Commit yourselves to being Just that.
Remember long ago... the men were only called Sire/Sir /Lord/Master...Whereas the women were called Wenches/Slaves....The term Submissive's only was used to describe the woman in question. but not used as a title until many centuries later. placing guidelines within the lifestyle how they want to live and forgetting about tradition of how it all came to be.
Were they force long ago? yes and no, some were even brought or traded. But yet still remember it was also a way of life that a woman SEVERED WITHOUT QUESTION. She done what she was ordered to do. Not sit there and whine or make a fuss or disagree. She carried out her Masters will.
This never disgraced the woman for she lived how she was looked upon. The best way to gain respect for yourselves is by respecting yourselves by loving the person you are.
"And showing anyone around you that puts you down for the choices you make on how you live your life. That their comments don't effect you in the slightness, They start to wonder they have a misconception of the lifestyle completely....Many don't understand the lifestyle because they NEVER EXPERINCED IT..So they draw up false ideas, opinions on it.
A simple comment to these individuals...Don't knock it. Until you're willing to listen to someone who has lived it....
Until next time.. Play safe Play hard, but whatever you do...Enjoy one another. The chains that bind, are the loving chains of love.
Phoeniix |
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Here I will post from time to time my insights, feel free to comment on them if you wish.
First I like to say to all the Submissive's/Slaves that have contacted me in recent weeks...Thank you for taking the time to write, Thank you for your compliments & most importantly thank you for your interest and continuing friendship.
To Master one, First one needs to learn the art of self control and Mastering himself first and foremost...If a Master cannot control himself.
How is any Submissive or Slave going to feel safe or feel comfortable enough to surrendering all that she is and wants to become If they cannot display the same behavior they expect.
Remember to ALL the New Submissive's out there just starting to explore in this way of life. ANGER is one letter from the word DANGER. (Remember this is all about...(S.S.C.) SAFE-SANE-CONSENSUAL...
Know what it is that you want from your Sir/Master/Daddy... Ask questions if you need to especially in the beginning by getting to know someone. Use COMMON SENSE.
If you need some advice after reading this column and you feel comfortable coming to me...Don't be embarrassed or feel stupid....A good Dominant is and will always be willing to help. In a clear well manner to clarify things so you may understand.
A good Dominant Will always inspire the Sub or Slave to be the best she can be or wants to become. " However it's up to you "To the Submissive's /Slaves to always encourage your Master to Guide, Lead, Instruct.
Until next time, Play safe, Play hard, whatever you do , Enjoy yourselves and each other.
Phoenix~ |
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