Don't write me and refer to me as "it" or "the sissy", or use any type of 3rd person language to reference me. Unless you actually are a God/Goddess (in the true sense of the word by having real political, military, economic, and religious power) like a Cesar or Napoleon or Cleopatra, you are doing nothing but making a mockery of yourself by showing how little you understand about what it means to be a dominant. You're no better than a stage magician who controls by disorientation. I don't get my rocks of being talked to like that, however I do enjoy playing word games on other people- but in your case I can guarantee your language technology will not be better than mine.

Like General Patton once said: lead me, follow me, or get out of the way. If you are a performing artist who's shows are BDSM whether public at events or to a 1 man audience you are still that- a performance artist. If your dominion is small, check your pride. If it is great, I'll check mine.

I want to find a life partner and in light of life being a long commitment requiring pliability to personal changes through time I am a malleable person, but I would prefer a partner that is both physically and intellectually active. I went through part of college as a personal trainer and scholarship track and cross country runner and studied political philosophy and comparative religions so I'd be happy with another physically active intelligent person.

Today a friend reminded me that I need to get on with the picking of a new name for myself. It's harder than I thought. Some names under consideration so far are Sabina, Eva, Ulrike, Nicolette, Fiona, Trinity, Dawn, Allegra, Maren, Frederieke, and Veda. Feedback is more than welcome.