I am a submissive. It is interesting that there are many more male submissives than there are female dominants. I suppose it is quite natural to want to do stuff to please ones partner. Maybe in this world of excessive we all live in, having stuff done for you is less pleasurable than doing stuff for others. If you are one of those people who get pleasure from exerting influence over your partner, then maybe we will get along. I am happy to talk about anything with anyone. I can talk about science/tech more intelligently than I can other topics. If you want to talk about stuff I know nothing about such as the outcome of last weeks AFL game, I am open to that and am very good at saying that “that is interesting I didn’t know that” There are a lot of different types of submissive/slave. I don’t want to limit the options for control a dominant partner has available to them so I don’t identify as a particular type of submissive.